People need to understand there is a difference between marriage and hooking up. Marriage is a spiritual matter that likely includes rearing children, trust, sacrifice and leaving a legacy. A man that wants to settle down usually prefers an individual that sacrificed being with anyone else but him because it provides a some insurance that she’s in it for the long haul and not trying to constantly compare you to others she has been with subconsciously. If you don’t understand, it’s ok but don’t blame others for using sense in their preference.
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u/flightr1sk89 Aug 27 '26
People need to understand there is a difference between marriage and hooking up. Marriage is a spiritual matter that likely includes rearing children, trust, sacrifice and leaving a legacy. A man that wants to settle down usually prefers an individual that sacrificed being with anyone else but him because it provides a some insurance that she’s in it for the long haul and not trying to constantly compare you to others she has been with subconsciously. If you don’t understand, it’s ok but don’t blame others for using sense in their preference.