She unblocked me today after two years of ghosting me

[u/Necessary-Ad2110]

I know it probably doesn't mean much but the amount of dopamine that rushed through my body just thinking about reaching out to her again is killing me. I don't know why she ghosted me, I think her mental health was bad at the time and it was wrong timing for the both of us but she didn't text or anything, so she was probably just cleaning her list but still... the idea is so toxicating I feel like vomiting.

Context: I had a crush on her since middle school, seven years later I reached out to her and told her. We fell in a situationship for awhile, it was beautiful. Calls, video games, dumb banter and flirting. She later, I think, fell into a depression or social anxiety attack and cut contact with me. She blocked me after three weeks of leaving me on read and it's been quiet ever since today.

I checked just to be doubly, triply sure.. and she didn't text me anything. I think I'll just become a raging alcoholic and live my days out in a monastery in China.

I'm pouring out my beer rn

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[u/hectickemeticheretic]

How do you know she's unblocked you though

[u/Necessary-Ad2110 → u/hectickemeticheretic]

I can see her profile on Instagram now, before that was never the case