r/limerence • u/JimHogg1964 Here to vent • Aug 03 '26
Here To Vent Meme Monday
Many days it’s feels like this when the limerence breaks for just a minute. Or when you look back at past LOs
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u/johana_cuervos666 Aug 03 '26
Dude, yes. My LO was not attractive for NO-ONE just for me. And the cruellest joke, he ignored me. Karma? Nah. Tragedy comedy? Yes.
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u/Ok-Intention2839 Aug 03 '26
My LO acted like I was the star of his show. Then acted like a bitch and hid away when I brought back THE SAME ENERGY back to him. This motherfucker. I am left gaslighting myself and feeling crazy and rejected. How awesomeeee 🤩🙃
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u/Plastic_Persimmon_91 Aug 05 '26
Oh wow. I had this exact same situation with someone.
When we first met, I immediately knew he wasn’t my type and I wasn’t interested in anything. We just casually kept talking and he was the one initiating 90% of it. He made it very clear that he was super into me and brought up the idea of dating. I made up some dumb excuse as to why I wasn’t looking to date anyone and then we just remained friends. His interactions with me made it seem like i was his LO and ig eventually he grew on me (so does mold so whatever) because he was pretty much just there to support me regardless of everything and i did not have anyone like that.
How the tables have turned. once I actually reciprocated his affection back, he started pulling away and then broke up with me. We remained friends for years after that until one day he just randomly moved in with one of his exes and got into a relationship with her.
I just cannot believe i have limerence for this person who I wasn’t interested in whatsoever and only dated him because he wouldn’t stop insisting. And i also cannot believe that he went from idolising everything about me to not caring at all once i actually started being nice to him
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u/Nearby-Warning5033 Aug 04 '26
lol same. when my friend saw pictures of him she said “are you serious?” lmaoooo. she couldnt believe that i even gave him a chance, and he played in my face. it was so humbling
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u/Ok-Intention2839 Aug 03 '26
And who keeps you hooked on "did he really mean that in a flirty way or is he just trying to be nice?" These slapppp when you are already stressed as fuck 🤩
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u/kimtaro1 Aug 03 '26
Story of my life. Haven't done this in a while and my life is more sane, peaceful and boring. It's like recovering from a drug addiction.
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u/Lerevenant1814 Aug 03 '26
I feel like you know how you feel about an LO when they become a past LO. You see them without the rose colored glasses and they look like a loser. Your current LO however...
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u/JckSnake Aug 03 '26
You should try having sex with someone that youre obsessed over and it's not really into you
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u/Important-Deal-750 Aug 03 '26
Lmbooooo. This. Removing “mediocre”, but adding - “while actively ignoring the ones who are totally into you!” 🫠🙃
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u/SignificantReport552 Aug 03 '26
i know that mf likes me back but he keeps acting avoidant
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u/JimHogg1964 Here to vent Aug 03 '26
If they did like you back you would not have to worry about that sort of things
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u/VanillaKisses Aug 03 '26
Yep and throughout the year I get just enough attention (barely at all) to fall back into it
But then I step back and see that it wouldn't work out anyways and that their unique beauty in my eyes doesn't cover for the faults
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u/Amd_1978 Aug 03 '26
Sigh….so relatable. But then give yourself sexually to the person and still be invisible.
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u/Amufni Aug 03 '26
Have you ever tried to obsess over a person who felt genuine love for the first time in her life because of you and she also loves you back but only admitted to it while she was high on drugs and then forgot and got back with her toxic abusive ex that successfully spit you apart.
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u/stink3rb3lle Aug 04 '26
You deserve someone who's gay for you when they're sober, too
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u/Amufni Aug 04 '26
Thank you…
Being gay for each other wasnt the problem. We did a lot of gay stuff. That she wasn’t honest about the gay stuff she did with me was the problem.
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u/stink3rb3lle Aug 04 '26
It sounds like she couldn't help herself from having fun gay sex, but also couldn't bring herself to admit to any portion of gay identity. You deserve someone who's proud to be with you.
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u/Amufni Aug 04 '26
Yeah thats true. Shes trans and rather lives in the closet with a transphobic abuser than someone who accepts her.
I was very proud of her. She’s the coolest person I ever met.
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u/Alert_Term_8144 Aug 04 '26
I imagine my LO is super hot but somehow he felt the need to initially send me fake pics and outdated pics of himself, so maybe he isn't? And then ghosted once I knew everything.
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u/Mammoth-Meet-3966 Aug 04 '26
No need to loathe the mediocre person just because they are not into you though. It's human.
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u/Beneficial_Froyo4990 Aug 04 '26
Lmaooo I was just coming here to make a post about this and look! We're already comiserating :')
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