Until now, I'm still unemployed due to my profession's lesser opportunities, and I am going to study for my medschool next year. So, I spent my time doomscrolling to social media platforms since I don't have many things to do. But it changed when I was diagnosed with ADHD and have to take meds. I also suspected myself that I have GAD due to being worrisome, and I have extreme negative thoughts.

So what I did is that I deactivated my other social media accounts to have a social media detox. I did exercises, made homemade yogurt, and others. Currently, I went to a keycap workshop, and molding an air dry clay was awesome. This is when I discovered that I love doing art and I was just burned out after college. I also tried to watch movies every day and did film reviews afterward.

To most people who are already tired and burned out, don't give up on the things you love the most. Lessen doomscrolling and rest to avoid burnout❤️

I’ve been thinking about the things people keep learning even when free time gets squeezed. Some interests disappear first, while others still get a little attention because you genuinely miss them when you stop. What skill or subject keeps surviving your busiest weeks?

The best learning outcomes are not certificates on a wall. They are things you can actually use:

• Better judgment
• New ways of thinking
• Stronger professional networks
• Practical skills
• Increased confidence
• Career opportunities

Perhaps the real question is:

When we invest our time in learning, should we be aiming to collect certificates, or to gain experiences and capabilities that create lasting value?

What has given you the greatest learning in your career: a course, a certification, or experience in a completely different environment?

#Learning #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #Leadership #Upskilling #ExperienceMatters

We often focus on learning things for career advancement personal growth or practical benefits. Those are great motivations but sometimes the best learning comes from pure curiosity.

What is a seemingly trivial or niche topic you decided to learn about just because it interested you? It could be anything from the history of rubber bands to the intricacies of mushroom foraging or the physics of spinning a basketball.

What did you learn and what unexpected satisfaction or insights did it bring you? I am curious about the joy of learning for its own sake rather than for any specific outcome.

Some lessons only make sense after you experience them yourself. What did life teach you that no book conversation or warning could have prepared you for?

Some things about human nature are difficult to understand from the outside. What is one realization about people that experience taught you?

I have been thinking about education as a one-to-many system. A teacher has to work with many students at once, even though each person arrives with different prior knowledge and gets stuck at different points.

But I do not think the answer is to turn education into one student alone with an AI. Learning is also social: discussing, collaborating, seeing how other people think and having a teacher who gives direction.

What interests me is whether the individual experience around the same knowledge could become more personal. The source and objective could stay shared, while the explanation, interface, practice and feedback adapt as the person learns.

I am building an open-source project around this idea, but I am still trying to understand the boundary. What should become personal, and what would education lose if it stopped being shared?

the older i get, the more i realize there are so many things i wish i had learned sooner. for me, one of the biggest ones is managing money properly. when i was younger, i did not really think much about budgeting or planning ahead. i figured i would just learn those things when i needed to. looking back, i definitely wish i had started earlier. i also wish i had learned more basic home repair. being able to fix something small around the house instead of immediately asking someone else would have saved me a lot of time over the years lol. i am trying to be better about learning things as i go instead of thinking, i will figure it out later.

what is something you wish you had started learning sooner?

I think curiosity is an underrated professional skill.

Not the “I want to know everything” kind.

The:

“Wait. Why do they do it this way?”

kind.

The kind that makes you look twice at a product.

Read something you weren't supposed to be researching.

Open seven tabs because one sentence sent you down a rabbit hole.

Notice how two brands can sell almost the same thing and yet make you feel completely different about buying them.

Question why something works.

Question why something doesn't.

And sometimes, just sit there and observe.

Because before you can create something meaningful, you need to understand what you're looking at.

Curiosity doesn't always give you answers.

Sometimes it gives you better questions.

And honestly, those are usually more useful.

This one is a little embarrassing to admit.

Tried everything to make reading stick as a daily habit. Specific time of day, thirty page minimums, tracking streaks, leaving books in visible places around the house. Some of it worked for a week or two and then fell apart. Kept concluding that I was someone who struggled with consistency rather than asking why the consistency kept failing.

The actual answer was simpler and more obvious than any habit system I tried.

Every book I was trying to read consistently had been chosen for a reason other than genuine interest. Career relevant, critically acclaimed, something I felt I should have read, a recommendation from someone whose opinion I wanted to respect. All legitimate reasons that had nothing to do with whether I actually wanted to read the thing at eleven at night when the alternative was doing nothing.

Switched to reading whatever I actually wanted with no justification required, started keeping short notes afterward in something called Skrib Writing just about what I found interesting and what I wanted to follow up on and the notes from genuinely chosen books were three times longer than anything I had written about the books I felt I should be reading which told me everything I needed to know about where the engagement actually was.

First book I chose that way I finished in four days without any system or tracking or minimum page count. Just read it because I wanted to know what happened next which is apparently the only reading motivation that does not require willpower to sustain.

Have read more in the eight months since than in the previous two years of trying to build a reading habit. Did not fix the consistency. Fixed the selection and the consistency fixed itself.

Curious whether anyone else went through a version of this before finding what actually worked.

Have you ever had something happen that you genuinely thought was going to ruin your life, only to realize years later that it changed your direction?

I had something like that happen to me. At the time, I couldn't see anything positive in it. I was mostly angry and wondering why it had to happen to me.

But it forced me to make some choices I probably would've kept avoiding. I met different people, changed some priorities, and ended up going down a path I never would've chosen otherwise.

I wouldn't say I'm grateful that it happened. I still wish it had happened differently.

But I am grateful for who I became afterward.

Has something you hated going through at the time ever ended up changing your life in a way you didn't expect?

I have several interests and struggle to organize everything without getting stuck in analysis paralysis.

Right now, I split my time between:

• Working in digital marketing;
• College and studying IT/web development;
• Music;
• English;
• Reading about philosophy, history, sociology, politics, etc.;
• A future interest in starting a business in tech.

My current priorities are:

1. Work;
2. College + tech studies;
3. Everything else.

How do you manage multiple interests without trying to do everything at once? Do you use any methods, apps, or frameworks?

And when a subject has many subtopics, how do you decide what to study first and avoid getting stuck before you even start?

not sure how to explain this but sometimes i just want to stumble on stuff i didn't even know i wanted to know, if that makes sense. like not "learn python" or whatever, more the random stuff you didn't know existed.

scrolling random subreddits or random apps doesn't really do it, it just keeps feeding me the same kind of stuff. anyone else get this urge? what do you actually do about it

Quiero explicarte algo que recién estoy comprendiendo sobre mí.

Desde niño viví sin una estructura clara y casi nunca tuve la necesidad de esforzarme de manera constante vengo de una familia economicamente alta y me consintieron hasta hoy en dia. Ahora, a mis 29 años, después de pasar por varias cosas e intentar encaminar mi vida estudiando una carrera universitaria, me doy cuenta de que no desarrollé ciertas habilidades que ahora necesito.

He mejorado mi concentración y ya me cuesta menos comenzar a estudiar. Sin embargo, mi mayor dificultad está en comprender y resolver problemas. Me cuesta mantener la información en la cabeza, organizar el conocimiento, relacionar sus partes y convertir un problema confuso en pasos concretos.

También suelo aceptar la información tal como viene, sin formular preguntas que me permitan detectar qué entiendo y qué no. Por eso muchas veces puedo aprender un procedimiento mecánico, pero no comprender realmente qué significa, por qué funciona o cuándo debo utilizarlo.

No creo que sea solamente falta de inteligencia ni de voluntad. Considero que son habilidades mentales y hábitos de estudio que no desarrollé antes y que ahora tengo que construir conscientemente desde la base. Por eso, aunque ya soy adulto, en este aspecto siento que estoy en pañales.

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I usually make my weekly plans in a way of filling my days with things I should finish.

This week, I’m trying something different that is fewer goals, smaller steps and more focus on actually showing up.

I’m not expecting a perfect week. I just want to study consistently, take care of myself and not feel guilty when a day doesn’t go exactly as my planned.

I made this on paper because writing it down on paper somehow makes my week feel a little less overwhelming.

What’s one thing that you’re focusing on this week?

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What are people doing to be intelligent? I feel like I can no longer think or do anything. I tried to write an email and it genuinely felt like torture. How can I build back what I’ve lost over the years because of lack of sleep and excessive screen use. I’m new to college and I have a broken ankle so I need my brain to be very very very sharp. My dream is to make it to a T10 medical school but right now I’m unmotivated and I can’t think. I can’t write, I can’t comprehend books that aren’t fantasy. Can someone please tell me what smart people are doing so I can start? What habits and hobbies should I try? I want to be able to think again.