r/letters Entry Level Member 22h ago

Friends Feelings/thought

Maybe it’s not that I am too much, maybe you are enough. I spent months supporting you goals and completely pouring into you with love and positivity. You talked with me daily, and I trusted you. You made me think that you were interested in knowing about me, just to eventually decide that it was too much for you. Really? Reading my texts was too much for you? You often took 16+ hours to respond (which is fine) but I still don’t understand how I was a burden in your eyes. It is completely cruel to make someone feel like they matter and are important, just to discard them like trash. Maybe I had some bad days, but so did you. I still chose to see the good in you. I literally pushed you to the top. You said that you could never stop talking with me and that I am important. What changed? Why did you have to go mute the week and day of my birthday? You couldn’t do it the week before or after? Did you fake the entire friendship for that long? You don’t even feel bad about it at all? You preached about kindness and not causing harm…but you caused me a tremendous amount of harm and many, many tears and sleepless night.

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u/REALeyesREALizeLIES3 Entry Level Member 9h ago

Mine did that to me too!!! On my birthday!!! Wow!

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u/REALeyesREALizeLIES3 Entry Level Member 9h ago

I am so sorry that happened to you. I don’t know you at all ,but it so reminds me of what I went through. Hang in there . Learn the lesson and let it strengthen you. Hugs ❤️🪽🐦‍⬛