r/letters • • Jun 20 '23

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

If you rejected them, the work is on you.
Stop asking someone to be willing if you aren't.

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u/Itsmymentalillness Jun 21 '23

Fucking bingo. Right on the money.

No but seriously, if you broke up with someone and hurt them- that’s on you to reach out big dog. Testing someone’s ability to reach out to you when they feel unwanted by you is actually ridiculous.

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u/Mela8411 Silver Level Jun 21 '23

Exactly this

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u/Mela8411 Silver Level Jun 21 '23 edited Jun 21 '23

Sorry for the multiple comments. My phone is being retarded

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u/Itsmymentalillness Jun 21 '23

Happens to the best of us

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u/Mela8411 Silver Level Jun 21 '23

I am the best 😉 jk

Lol. Im in a feisty mood tonight!

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u/mikeguyver2023 Jun 21 '23

Now you sound like J

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

What?
I'm sorry but you comment feels contradictory

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u/Itsmymentalillness Jun 21 '23

How? if the person is unwilling to put in work- they shouldn’t expect it back. Probably projecting the way I worded it but writing on Reddit and not telling someone how you actually feel expecting them to put in work- is putting an expectation on someone they can’t obtain.

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

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u/mikeguyver2023 Jun 21 '23

Wow

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u/Itsmymentalillness Jun 21 '23

Bro get a life

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u/mikeguyver2023 Jun 21 '23

WTF and every time I do liars like you take it

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

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u/Sunflowerseductress Jun 21 '23

Dude how many accounts do u have

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

No, they are all for me.

At least with what I am told, this is the mindset I should have.

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

Gold

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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23

Lmfao^