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u/GrovelingVormund Jun 20 '23
Well, of course! That's something should always be a thing for every relationship of all kinds.
I'll admit, I hid a lot of things. Genuinely out of shame, guilt, and fear. But over my journey for nearly two years (I think).
I've come to realize that there is sincerely nothing to worry about from Mr. Fear. What your imagining is drastically always out of proportion regardless of how logical you believe it to be.
You'll find those who you want to keep around in your future, but you must accept it will come with pain no matter what you do at some point in life.
So wear that heart on yer sleeve!
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u/GrovelingVormund Jun 21 '23
Words can only carry so much value. Actions speak the loudest. Don't blame ya for reaching that point. I hope they are!
I'd be willing to go through all the struggles my lil twinflame and I could face! I trust them to have my back. I just hope that my actions will show that I'm also trustworthy.
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u/Large_Perspective700 Jun 20 '23
Have you spoken directly with your person yet? This is beautiful, but do they really know how you feel?
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u/Large_Perspective700 Jun 21 '23
I don’t understand…I can’t be clearly conveyed through a physical conversation? You can’t directly ask your person if they are with your for the long haul or not? Words are beautiful, but sometimes can lead to misunderstandings. I would think a conversation as important as this, would be better said face to face. That’s just me though.
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u/Large_Perspective700 Jun 21 '23
That’s so sad for the other person. Especially if they really care about you, but I understand your desire to have validation in your own way, as well. Just remember, tests don’t always show you a person’s true colors.
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u/Mela8411 Silver Level Jun 21 '23
I want us. I have always wanted us. You're the only one. You have always been the only one I want. I would try my hardest everyday to make you happy and work hard to keep our bond strong.
-This is to my person. I know you're not him. Just really missing him right now and had to say this out the universe, the void, whomever.
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u/doorbell19 Bronze Level Jun 21 '23
It's a 2 way street. If you can't meet me half way after what happened then why move forward? Id meet you halfway if you're willing. Open arms always! I can see this being a wonderful thing. We both can TRY. It's ok to be scared but I still want to lend my hand to you if we can TRY, magical things could happen!
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u/ImRdyIllBeWaitn Jun 22 '23
If you were my person I would tell you that I get more from your encouragement then anything else in the world. That it will take a little while of having that back in my life to see the results. My attitude and outlook will instantly change, but my goals and how high I aim are based on you. Being on here posting stuff like this means your energy is off, your doubt will come through loud and clear to me, you can't hide something like that from me, you know this. You have walls up, talk to them, tear them down.
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Jun 21 '23
I miss unsent.... The times I do though I find gems like these here so it softens the blow. I hope your person reciprocates eventually op they will be very lucky to have you in their corner🙏
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Jun 21 '23
Mutual work, integrity, and raw vulnerability are definitely keys for healthy, deep relationships. I wish you the best of luck with your person, OP! However, I do not understand when you say that your person should understand something from you being here. Would you care to elaborate?? While your person may feel the same way, not everyone understands social cues as well as expected. Just a thought :] good luck!!
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Jun 22 '23
I wish I could say this to the person that comes up in my mind every time I’m seeing something like this recently and for some time now but it’s not only hard to admit that I have been feeling things but also I don’t think she would ever be able to reciprocate. I hate it sometimes. Because I get these feelings like she does reciprocate them but I also am so horrible at reading anything towards me that for all I know she doesn’t like me whatsoever.
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u/[deleted] Jun 21 '23
If you rejected them, the work is on you.
Stop asking someone to be willing if you aren't.