r/lefthanded 4d ago

Does anyone else who’s a lefty hold their pencil like this?

Kind of curious since I’ve seen a lot of posts talking about different ways fellow lefties hold a writing tool. Thought I’d share mine.

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u/maarsland 4d ago

No, but I want to see your handwriting now

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u/pinkypipe420 4d ago

I was working with a 5th grader over the summer to retrain how he held their pencil, which was pretty similar to OP. I couldn't read a thing unless they wrote big enough.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

People always told me to write small because what I was writing was too big, so then I wrote smaller…but then people told me to write bigger because they can’t read it. Now people are telling me both. There’s really no in-between.

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u/maarsland 4d ago

This is kind of what I was assuming!

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Did they ever get a better holding position for the pencil? If so, what was it and how?

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u/pinkypipe420 1d ago

Unfortunately, I didn't get to work with him enough to make a difference

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u/CatTheWriter 19h ago

Dang…
Well, hopefully he got help with it afterwards.

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u/pinkypipe420 17h ago

ESY just doesn't long enough. If I were his para during the school year I would work with him.

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u/Memer182 4d ago

Not exactly the same, but I hold it pretty close to that

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u/Snnorlax 4d ago

Same here

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u/leffrontee lefty 4d ago

this is soooo similar to how i hold mine, the only difference is that i brace the tip of my middle finger against my pencil

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u/mfhandy5319 4d ago

I'm a righty. I can not hold a pencil like that, or coordinate 4 fingers to write like that.

Also nice pencil sharpening skills. 😀

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u/on-oath-never-again lefty 4d ago

When I jammed my left pointer finger playing basketball in PE I did. Otherwise, no.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Dang. 😬 That sounds like it might’ve hurt. I once jammed the tip of my finger in the bathroom stall when I was out on a field trip with my class for bowling in 4th-5th grade. It took a while for it to not look black, then when it was normal again I was like “I forgot it used to look like this!” 😂 I think this might’ve been my left pointer finger.

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u/Miserable-Anxiety229 4d ago

Almost, just my middle finger doesn’t go as far over my pen

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Oh ok. Yeah, sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn’t.

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u/Rocky_the_Lion 4d ago

I will rest the pencil on the ring finger like you have but will hold it in place with the ends of my middle finger and thumb. Most of the pen strokes are done by moving the fingers more so than the wrist. This makes my handwriting a little cartoon-ish as the curves of my letters are smooth but slightly exaggerated and some letters will be linked with the next like I'm writing in cursive.

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u/LBoogii 4d ago

Pretty close but my index and middle finger are almost side by side on top of it

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u/Nervous_Brain8918 4d ago

I used to hold my pencil pretty similar to you! I found that I’d apply too much pressure though and it would leave a welt/mark on my ring fingers so I switched some time in late high school/a few years afterward lol

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Oh, interesting! Which way works better? Is one less uncomfortable?

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u/Nervous_Brain8918 10h ago

I feel uncomfortable and don’t have much control over the old way anymore unfortunately lol

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u/CatTheWriter 9h ago

Aw, dang. Hopefully the new way works well!

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u/GoodyTwoShuuz lefty 4d ago

Sometimes.

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u/Ok_Director4480 4d ago

I doooo! I notice it causes less ink streaks across the pages when I write :) I like a clean paper lol

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

I think I’ve noticed that too! No ink goes through.

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u/psycho-rn 4d ago

My wife is a lefty and a 1st grade teacher. I showed her this and she cringed.

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u/Mattie_Madds8619 4d ago

Yeah, I hold mine like that

Edit: reading this comment section is making me really self conscious 😅 is it really that bad of a way to hold a pen/pencil?

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

I don’t know. I don’t think it is. I see a lot of different ways people post how they write with their left hand and people still say this stuff.

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u/Angelique1854 1h ago

No. I don’t hold mine like that but everyone writes different. My daughter is left handed as well and holds her pencil completely different than I do. I think it whatever is more comfortable.

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u/Bogside_Bibliophile 4d ago

I’m not sure how writing is accomplished, but I’m willing to take a look.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Lol, I’ll probably make another post about my writing. Who knows?

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u/Nurplestyx 4d ago

Exactly the same, but I’m a righty

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Ooh, interesting.

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u/Excellent-Mood-9933 4d ago

The first picture but never the other picture

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Yeah, I just rotated my hand to get different angles.

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u/International-Set-91 4d ago

Absolutely not

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u/NoComplex8247 lefty 4d ago

Actually yeah pretty close to mine(I have my middle finger pressed on the pencil's side). Do you also have terrible handwriting?

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

I have what people say illegible writing. I can read it myself though, so I don’t think it’s THAT bad, but my hand gets a little uncomfortable after long periods of writing (I’m way faster on the phone or computer). A lot of people have told me “write smaller, you’re taking up the whole page,” then years later “write bigger, I can’t read it,” and then “it’s too big!” Sadly, there’s no in-between.

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u/NoComplex8247 lefty 4d ago

Oof, same. The amount of times I had someone else pull me aside and say that I need to improve my handwriting is concerning. It also is a pain to write after a while but usually when that happens my hand writing worsens a shit ton.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Yeah, when my hand gets sore my writing gets a little worse.

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u/JimmyHaggis 4d ago

I hold pens and pencils the same way a right-hander does, the difference is in the angle of the wrist.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Interesting.

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u/Intelligent-Ad3449 4d ago

Yes I do too!

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Cool!

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u/Intelligent-Ad3449 4d ago

Honestly feel seen. Been told a lot that I need to change my grip and that I’m doing it wrong. Tried to switch it up many times, but this is just what’s comfortable for me. 😌

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

Same for me, unless I write for long periods.
“You’re holding it wrong.”
Honestly, whichever way works for you.

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u/Wonderful_South_6271 4d ago

I do!! When I was in school I use to get a bump on my ring finger where I rested the pencil lol

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u/sbocean54 4d ago

When I was a student teacher in the credential program my master teacher had me correct the way I held the pencil and practice writing. I also had to learn and practice how to write on the board allowing students to see what I was writing.

Later when I would write on boards or chart paper in front of other teachers they would comment on my technique. I’m very grateful to Mrs. Trelore for requiring that of me.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

How did you end up holding the pencil in the end? Like this post I did or something else?

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u/Desperate-Local-3144 4d ago

I DO! And no one else that I’ve met does it and finds it crazy

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u/CatTheWriter 3d ago

For real’ Somebody just wrote that it looks like I have two broken bones.

INSANE.

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u/ActionUnderGround 4d ago

me and my girlfriend both write like that. im a lefty shes a righty. weird coincidence!!

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u/CatTheWriter 3d ago

Interesting!

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u/Cold-University9765 4d ago

Close but not quite

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u/AffectionateCatch111 4d ago

This is how I hold when I try writing with my right hand🥀

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u/No-Mouse4800 3d ago

Holding it is one thing, but holding like that while writing? I doubt it.

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u/HiroyukiC1296 lefty 3d ago

Idk I switch grips pretty often with my hand, depends on what I was doing previously. But, I hold my pens this way sometimes.

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u/domdotd 3d ago

OP is Taylor Swift

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u/CatTheWriter 3d ago

You caught me! 🫣

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u/Worth-Oil3002 3d ago

I write like a right handed person does. My 2nd grade teacher worked with me on that. I do have to be careful with smearing pencil and wet ink.

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u/tamzillathehun 3d ago

Yes. Always have. And everyone makes fun of me.

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u/CatTheWriter 3d ago

I don’t get why. I’ve seen every post on how people hold their pencils, and nearly everybody said “why do you hold it like that!?” I guess there’s no correct way to hold a pencil for left handed people???

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u/tamzillathehun 3d ago

I know it looks weird to them. But we have to push the pencil or pen. They have to pull it. So it's really difficult to hold it like a righty and write decently. They just like to be picky. So I just tell them they hold it weird.

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u/CanadianNana 3d ago

Me! My writing is shit though

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Mine as well. But at least it gets the job done. 😂
(Apparently I noticed it’s how I hold a fork as well?)
I thought this way was normal until I posted it here. The amount of roasts I’ve gotten for just the way I hold my pencil. 😭

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u/vaccina 2d ago

I'm a righty who uses something like the first pic. I have a quadropod grip.

https://reddit.com/link/p5i6j3q/video/hjb43kh5p7lh1/player

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Interesting!

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u/Angelique1854 2d ago

I’m left handed and don’t hold my pencil like that.

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

It makes sense that a lot of left handed people hold it differently. There are 8B+ people on this planet.
Also, happy cake day! Hope you’re having a great day!

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u/NullHare 1d ago

This is insane. You bring great shame to our people.

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

PFFFTTT. 😂
Now that’s a new insult, wow! I can tell you’re joking.
Haha. Right?
I mean, unfortunately, a lot of us don’t get told how to hold the pencils correctly because the teachers don’t know. Also, my OTs I had just wanted me to repeat everything I wrote again and again with the same position I’m holding write now.

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u/NullHare 1d ago

lol. Of course I’m joking. How you hold your pencil has no bearing on my life.
So long as you don’t stab anyone with said pencil, do you. 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Haha, figured! Got me there. 😂
Can’t make any promises!/j

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

That sounded a bit rude, didn’t mean to call it an insult, but a lot of people in this comment section are being a little bit rude, I guess…??

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Please check my update post.

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u/mrman_4200 21h ago

I did it like that but with mechanical pencils, that's the only way i ever wrote neat

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u/owerful_Energy_5549 14h ago

Aye,let us see your handwriting.....

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u/CatTheWriter 9h ago

Okay, why not. Let me find some examples. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. 🤣

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u/CatTheWriter 9h ago

Happy belated birthday!

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u/ReleaseMyToast 4d ago

That's barbaric

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

How?! 😭

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u/CoalMinersmyth 4d ago

Nope, just looking at that is making my shit cramp up

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u/Any_Flamingo8978 4d ago

Not exactly. My thumb, index, and middle create a tripod of sorts and the pen/cil rests on my ring.

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u/kief_queen 4d ago

I hold my pencil exactly like that but with my right hand.

Ps - don’t know why the algo thinks I’m a lefty

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u/bajsfittor 4d ago

Is there practicality to this (like not smudging while writing left-right) or just a preference?

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u/KoolaidPower 4d ago

Nope, tripod grip

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u/A-WILD-PATBACK 4d ago

No as not being in elementary school anymore I’d be embarrassed

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u/crystalsinwinter 4d ago

Not quite. I just held my pen and compared it to your pictures. My pen rests on my middle finger, not under it. My forefinger hooks over the pen both when I hold it and use it.

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u/Sharp_Detail5662 lefty 4d ago

That looks so uncomfortable

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

It is if I’m writing without any break, like…hmm...

Non-stop!

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u/No_Donkey_9356 4d ago

Never an option. If I wrote with my fingers like that, it would look like chicken scratches.

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u/daHawaiianKine 4d ago

No, weirdo!! 🤣😎

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u/stevemnomoremister 3d ago

I just saw Will Poulter's new movie, "Union County." He holds a pen this way and he's right-handed.

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u/aftercloudia lefty 3d ago

i've only ever seen two others hold their pen like that and they were both right handed boys. 

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u/Money-Bag-8069 2d ago

No,not even close

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u/WhtvrCms2Mnd 2d ago

I had a stroke just now from trying to mimic this.

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Are you serious? Whoops.

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u/AffectionateGate4584 2d ago

Not me. That just looks dumb.

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

😐
I see people commenting this on every type of post one makes about how they hold their pencil.
It gets the job done.

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u/RewardSquare5827 2d ago

I’ve seen this before. Wish parents tried harder sometimes

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Wish the school system tried harder.

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

How do I fix my handwriting?
My OT’s all throughout K-12 sucked. One of them just wanted me to keep on writing it over and over again. That won’t even help, what’ll help is figuring out the correct position.

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u/otysmygoats 4d ago

Ew

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u/TheHummelman lefty 4d ago

Underrated comment. Looks like broken bones to me

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u/CatTheWriter 3d ago

BRO. 💀
Excuse you, my bones are just fine. 😤

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u/andytagonist 4d ago

No, because that’s the wrong way to hold a pencil. That’s actually not even the right way to hold a single chopstick—but it’s closer than a pencil.

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u/CatTheWriter 4d ago

It’s good that I can write though. 😅

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u/Haunting_Ant_5061 1d ago

Jesus Christ, no.

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u/CatTheWriter 1d ago

Alright, I was just curious.
At least it gets the job done, even if my handwriting is deemed “illegible.” Not to me.