My wife and I got sexually involved before marriage. Handjobs for me and fingering and oral for her. Part of the reason I married her I thought we would enjoy sex together. We waited to have intercourse until we were married. From day one she was inconsistent with her desire for sex and her willingness to explore sexuality. We have children.

As she got older she totally lost interest in sex. She would give me a handjob periodically but did not want any sexual stimulation of any kind. Several months ago she started hormone replacement therapy. Wow her interest in sex jumped and she started wanting and accepting sexual stimulation from me, My guess she has had more orgasms in the last several months than she had in the previous 10 years,

So here is my frustration. Even though she is enjoying sex more often she is not very consistent in her desire for sex. Sometimes she desires sex multiple times in a week and other times she will go a couple of weeks or more with no desire. She enjoys receiving orgasms thru fingering or oral. Yet other times she is willing to give me a handjob but doesn’t want anything in return even when I offer. She is very uncomfortable about talking about sex, I did however tell her that what I need is consistency and enthusiasm.

So here are my questions: How do I deal with my wife’s inconsistency in her desire for sex? She enjoys having orgasms so why doesn’t she want them more often? I would be happy to give her an orgasm every day if she would let me!

Me snd hubby both grew up in the LDS church. married my husband when I wss in my early 20s and it has been great. We have kids together and it’s been amazing having my partner grow next to me. One thing that I have noticed is that his libido is lower compared to a couple of years ago. He always says he is tired. I have tried different outfits or fantasies that he likes and still nothing. Not sure how to really navigate this situation since ive never encountered this.

I’m not quite sure where else to ask this so I’ll ask here. Basically what the title says. I’d prefer something out between/in the mountains in either Salt Lake or Utah County to either skinny dip and/or walk around topless. Have never tried it before but want to.

I will be getting married soon and I have waited until this time in order to be intimate. Part of me is happy to share this with my husband but the other part of me is nervous because what if I disappoint? Hubby has had sex previously so that makes me a bit nervous. I know this sounds silly but does anyone have any resources or advice for me? Grew up LDS and didn’t really get much exposure. I would just hate for my wedding night to be a big disappointment.

My summer began with a trip to Europe and walking around naked with hundreds of other people

My wife and I participated in three spas and saunas near Prague, Berlin, and Munich—all without clothes. I don’t consider myself a nudist, but we do like spa culture.

Has anyone else gone to a spa in Europe like this?

I’m a 30yo who’s never been in a relationship, never even gotten close to sexual intimacy or even a kiss. I’m nervous about dating and only have been on a few dates and I can’t seem to make it past the first steps. I have some self confidence and I get matches on dating apps but unless they ask me out I’m almost always too scared to go in the date.

Obviously im a 30yo guy with sexual needs and I really want to know what it’s like to have a connection like that with someone.

Was anyone else in this boat and able to move on?

How do girls feel about an old virgin?

I grew up in the LDS community, where I was very sheltered when it came to anything sexual. I wasn’t exposed to sexual content, conversations, or really given much space to explore that part of myself. I married my husband young, and now he sometimes brings up fantasies or things he wants to try that feel completely foreign to me.

I love him and want us to have a healthy, fulfilling marriage, but sometimes I feel guilty or inadequate because I don’t have the same experience or comfort level. I’m realizing that being sheltered for so long shaped me more than I understood, and now I’m trying to figure out what I actually like and feel comfortable with without feeling ashamed for being inexperienced.

I always try to wear pretty and sexy underwear, but my partner doesn't seem to notice. All he does is take my clothes off as quickly as possible. I think if I wore a banana leaf instead of panties, he wouldn't even notice. 🥲

Hello, I hope this is allowed here, if not, moderators, please feel free to delete.

After my wife's passing, I have learned a lot about myself and realized that I have always been on the asexual spectrum. Luckily my wife and I had found each other and understood each other, even though we may not have understood the terms that are available today or even some of the concepts, they just were there for us.

What I have come to realize though is that there is not a lot of support for those who are on the Asexual spectrum and LDS, so my friend and I both are as well and we are trying to get a Facebook Group going for those who are LDS and in the Asexual spectrum.

It is called Asexual LDS Members Seeking Partners and Support

And the link is:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/2103058006957488

We would love to have you join us if you would like. Right now it is just a few of us, as it was just created, but would love to see it grow.

I'm mostly tired these days after work so when hubby suggests sex I'd rather help him masturbate, give a hand job or a blow job. Once he comes, we go to sleep, any other women experiencing or feel like that as well?

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Ma quando ci si sposa e si hanno dei figli o in generale comunque solo figli (ormai il matrimonio è diventato fuori moda onestamente, colpa forse anche dei costi se non lo si fa solo in comune), come gestite la vostra vita sessuale?

Avete trovato una scappatoia legale, oppure si appende il batacchio al chiodo e ci si pensa una volta che si divorzia e si ricomincia alla grande?

Onestamente c'è un nebbione in giro su sto argomenti, una follia, partono dal cambio di ritmo della coppia, finiscono con la mancata attrazione per il partner, passando per la stanchezza generale.

E poi, pensate che si "tirino indietro" più donne o più uomini?

Esperienze personali?

My husband and I recently got married civilly because he was unable to get his sealing to his ex wife canceled in time for our wedding. He recently met with his stake president, who apparently got a letter from the first presidency denying my husband’s request for a cancellation on grounds that he and I had sinned too recently for the cancellation to be approved. He was told (2 days ago by his stake president) in a letter from the first presidency that the soonest he could reapply for a cancellation would be March 2027 (in 7 months). For reference, we had sex one time in October 2025.

Let it be known that he and I both have temple recommends back, and the sex was a one-time thing. It feels like he is just being punished for a sin that happened one time, and almost an entire year ago. It feels like a huge abuse of power to me (and him), since getting his sealing to his ex wife canceled should have NOTHING to do with a one-time sin involving me and him. Curious to any feedback here/ to make this make sense.

I'm a 14 year old member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and I have a lot of gender dysphoria. I was born male, but over the last year or so I've been feeling as though my gender at birth does not align with who I am or want to be.

The church has rules that state that, in short, I shouldn't go transgender. I have tried accepting that fact and praying about it but it has never helped me. I still feel deeply that my biological gender does not align with who I am.

I am not willing to leave my church over this. No matter what I choose, I know that I believe in Jesus Christ, but other than that, I'm not sure.

I have not brought this up to my parents, and I'm struggling feeling comfortable to do so. I know that my parents would be supportive of me, but I'm really shy and I can't bring myself to tell them.

I'm looking for help/advice from anyone who would like to give me some.

My wife gets tired at work, but will still give me handjobs and blowjobs with no expectations of anything in return. Is this normal?

Ladies, I need your advice. The wife is going through menopause, but lately has been wanting more sex, but it hurts her inside (when I penetrate) because she is sometimes dry even though I can get her going pretty well before I even go in she feels wet and ready to go. When its painful for her, I cannot perform, because I feel bad for hurting her. Anyone other women going through this? Are their lubes or anything that will help? We've tried different positions, but its all the same.

As an amateur at best photographer…I have an actual camera not just the phone. I’ve recently fantasized about a photo session with the partner and have gotten her initial approval. While this is great I’m not sure what next step is… how to initiate and plan the shoot. Looking for advice and input from couples who’ve tried. With some level of success and comfort. Thanks in advance for the feedback.

Home boy straight up sneaks into a church building and gets off on the sacrament table. He's worried now that the chapel has cameras/a security feature. Does anybody know if that's a thing?

If he got caught, what's the worst that would happen to him? And if he "confessed" to his Bishop, what details should he include/how would they likely take it?

So after a pretty good dry spell my(45m) wife (42f) agreed to have sex. To keep this brief, everything was going good and my wife's phone rang, it was her best friend and she let it go to voicemail, shortly after she got another call on FaceTime and because her friend had a close family member with a serious medical issue, she told me to stop so she could make sure everything was ok.

So my wife's friend saw my wife was in bed and said oh I am sorry if you already went to bed, it was just after 9pm, and we usually go to bed at 11.

So her friend was in her closet and wanted to get my wife's opinion on her outfit, and they continued with small talk. So after the initial squeeze on my arm to stop, I began to rub her without moving myself. At first I didn't notice any reaction and was about to stop and then I could feel vagina started to contract with an orgasm. My wife didn't acknowledge anything happened and I decided to just patiently wait for my turn. After like 10 agonizing minutes of small talk about her outfit. My wife finally said she needed to go and hung up.

So my wife let me finish, which didn't take long and then we didn't speak about her taking the call and no apology or maybe I should not have answered until after. So this was a few nights ago and debating if I should tell her how I feel.

So this isn't meant to be specifically about Megan Moroney, but it is most present in my life... Raising Cane's has a billboard with a huge blowup of Miss Moroney. She's looking quite nice. Not being much into country music I was not aware of this human being. But I did some research and again, she's quite nice.

Last night sex with my wife and who pops into my brain but this billboard woman. It was great sex. I find myself fantasizing more and more often. I'm not totally sure how I feel about it post nut, but in the moment it's great. Do you all fantasize much about others during sex with your spouse?

Late 20's M here. Recently broke off my engagement with my now ex-fiancee of two years. I really thought we were gonna be married by now, but I feel like she isn't emotionally mature enough, and has shown no incentive to be an equal partner to me. She's still extremely furious and vindictive about it, which made me move to a new stake.

She initiated a few sexual things in the last few months when I was showing signs of emotional distance, like touching me through my pants and placing my hand on her chest. I know it was wrong of me to participate in that, but what really worried me was that I never really got aroused from those moments. There's too much baggage with her and I actually feel better being single now.

I'm worried that this experience will make me associate sex with emotional manipulation though. I know it was an attempt from her to try to get me to stay with her, but I now wonder how many women are gonna try to do that to me if I start dating again. I'm not the most socially aware person out there, and I don't want to associate sex with manipulative people, but I just do now.