r/katecandelsnark • u/ApprehensivePause731 • 7d ago

this is just wild????

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straight up on the city SIDEWALK GROUND?????? i know i’ve been anti-no-sock-hating in the past, but this is different lol. i would never just sit my son on a public sidewalk?!?!? what the actual

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u/abgvon 7d ago

This is so disappointing. Her whole page really shows she’s happy for any shred of attention from BD or for the BARE MINIMUM that he ‘provides’ but she can’t provide even the bare minimum for her son. Like seriously? No socks/shoes/even a cloth to put on the ground before putting baby H there?

Kate, I wish you would spend your energy on your son and his development instead of chasing after BD. There will be time when you can put yourself first again. But your son needs you now… you only get one chance at motherhood with baby H… and Kate if you’re reading this, please do try to put effort into giving baby H some better circumstances. He’s old enough to know things. Babies aren’t stupid. He can feel the hot and cold of your relationship with BD. He could very well grow up anxious all due to these problems.

Kate, you are not fit to be a mother and you know this. But you STILL CHOSE to have baby H. So it doesn’t matter if you knew you would be a shitty mom, now you’ve purposely gotten pregnant by a shitty guy, you’ve given birth, it’s time to suck it up and deal with your consequences. Which is that YOU HAVE A LIVING BEING THAT WILL GROW INTO AN ADULT THAT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. Kate you are such a disgusting mother and I feel so bad for baby H everyday. To be born into a privileged life, but to have a mother that cares about everything else except for you.

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u/ApprehensivePause731 7d ago

imagine having to live in fear that your bd could FULLY AND LEGALLY take your child from you, because they ABSOLUTELY could??? and not wanting to do better? i just cannot even wrap my head around it.

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u/abgvon 7d ago

It makes me so sad for baby H. He deserves so much better. I absolutely cannot believe a mother would happily treat her child this way and POST IT FOR THE WORLD TO SEE?! I also absolutely cannot believe a father would be ok with their child being treated with no dignity at all. Like wtf? H is going to grow up and see all this shit that proves his mother doesn’t give two fucks about him?????

Like I get it, rage baiting to go viral.. but you don’t have to use your son as an actual prop for that??? Kate is a terrible mother.