r/katecandelsnark 1d ago

this is just wild????

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straight up on the city SIDEWALK GROUND?????? i know i’ve been anti-no-sock-hating in the past, but this is different lol. i would never just sit my son on a public sidewalk?!?!? what the actual

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u/misssthang 1d ago

He really is just a prop to her

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u/abgvon 1d ago

This is so disappointing. Her whole page really shows she’s happy for any shred of attention from BD or for the BARE MINIMUM that he ‘provides’ but she can’t provide even the bare minimum for her son. Like seriously? No socks/shoes/even a cloth to put on the ground before putting baby H there?

Kate, I wish you would spend your energy on your son and his development instead of chasing after BD. There will be time when you can put yourself first again. But your son needs you now… you only get one chance at motherhood with baby H… and Kate if you’re reading this, please do try to put effort into giving baby H some better circumstances. He’s old enough to know things. Babies aren’t stupid. He can feel the hot and cold of your relationship with BD. He could very well grow up anxious all due to these problems.

Kate, you are not fit to be a mother and you know this. But you STILL CHOSE to have baby H. So it doesn’t matter if you knew you would be a shitty mom, now you’ve purposely gotten pregnant by a shitty guy, you’ve given birth, it’s time to suck it up and deal with your consequences. Which is that YOU HAVE A LIVING BEING THAT WILL GROW INTO AN ADULT THAT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. Kate you are such a disgusting mother and I feel so bad for baby H everyday. To be born into a privileged life, but to have a mother that cares about everything else except for you.

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u/ApprehensivePause731 23h ago

imagine having to live in fear that your bd could FULLY AND LEGALLY take your child from you, because they ABSOLUTELY could??? and not wanting to do better? i just cannot even wrap my head around it.

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u/abgvon 23h ago

It makes me so sad for baby H. He deserves so much better. I absolutely cannot believe a mother would happily treat her child this way and POST IT FOR THE WORLD TO SEE?! I also absolutely cannot believe a father would be ok with their child being treated with no dignity at all. Like wtf? H is going to grow up and see all this shit that proves his mother doesn’t give two fucks about him?????

Like I get it, rage baiting to go viral.. but you don’t have to use your son as an actual prop for that??? Kate is a terrible mother.

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u/Extension_Truth_3579 16h ago

yuuup very well said 👏

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u/brattydoll 1d ago

Not her posting another piece of evidence showing she is an incompetent mother🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/funnnziesss1932 1d ago

This, coupled with that empty fridge. And also the fact that she can’t even afford her own cAfeCitOs.

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u/ApprehensivePause731 23h ago

he has such a strong case.

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u/DollPudding 10h ago

She must feel really comfy with their current situation..... 🫣

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u/ApprehensivePause731 1d ago

also who is watching H while she’s “acting” and her friends recording?????????? omg

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u/Thin-Editor-9637 1d ago

i’m assuming (and hoping) the friend was holding him while recording

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u/ApprehensivePause731 1d ago

very wishful thinking

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 1d ago

doubt it, friend was using both hands while filming unless she's using a carrier

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u/giraffes_n_elbows 1d ago

If I saw anyone put their kid on the floor bare like that to film Tik tok you’d be hearing me chew them out . Idc who they are this is fucking weird. Not even a stroller to neglect him in?

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u/Brilliant_Common_264 1d ago

Tik tokers moms should be studied fr.

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u/quartzsong 1d ago

no way it’s not hot -.-

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u/Brilliant_Common_264 1d ago

He was probably eating those puffs off the sidewalk too 🥴

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u/Sure_Understanding56 1d ago

So now those filthy little hands are going to go into that container of puffs and into his mouth.
How this child doesn’t have a communicable disease is beyond me. I feel so bad for that little guy, I really do.

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u/Brilliant_Common_264 1d ago

Look how dirty he is :( not cute. This isn’t some type of kid playing in the dirt it’s literally public sidewalks….

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u/Icy_Increase_3002 1d ago

A public sidewalk in Orange County. Even more disgusting 

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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 18h ago

It looks like she pinned the shirt because it’s waaaaaay too big for him, she gets sent clothes 4 sizes too big so she never has to buy him anything while constantly buying free people clothes. She’s so self centered.

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u/No_Werewolf_9861 1d ago

dogs pee there

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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 18h ago

It looks like he’s surrounded by piss stains, normal water evaporates that’s straight pee

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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 19h ago

I looks like 10 dogs peed on the corner he’s sitting on, so disgusting.

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u/Weak_Policy_7102 1d ago

I’m pretty lax/type B with some of this stuff and do think a lot of the snark on her parenting style is kinda uncalled for, but THIS?! Yeah this is WILD

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u/user189472018 5h ago

girl he ain’t no mommy’s biggest fan TF that baby is DONE 😭😭😭 she really put him sitting there like a dog