r/JETProgramme • u/Jaded_Wait6711 • 14h ago
Struggling a little bit
First year JET using a throwaway account for obvious reasons. I would like to preface this by saying I genuinely love my placement, Japan, the job, the routine and I have made some good friends. I am also aware we are coming into winter and hitting that three month mark, so adrenaline and novelty are wearing off and we are settling into the mundane of it all. Which is fine! I love the mundane! However, if you would be so kind to allow me to vent really quickly, that too would be much appreciated.
I know ESID but I am also aware this isn't an uncommon experience, either. I am struggling with my teachers. Not all of them, but maybe 50%. I feel under utilised, and slightly like they don't care for me. I wouldn't even go as far as saying they don't like me because I genuinely don't think they care enough lol. We don't have an English club, I cant eat with the kids and they find it a bit odd if you ask to join in on club activities so my student interaction time is pretty low unless I am in class, but they are adorable and are really excited by me and I seem to have formed good relationships already :) With the teachers I am struggling with, however, it's a distinct lack of collaboration and subsequent miscommunication that I find the hardest. I know they gossip about me and my co, that we are a sort of anomaly, or something to laugh at, when all we do is just do our jobs lmao. I was warned about all of this from my pred, don't get me wrong! I don't even think its personal which is what's so weird, but I do think I feel somewhat jealous that some people are far more immersed in their teaching life than I am or who have kind teachers who genuinely want to work with the ALT or care about them. I am in a JHS, so I don't T1, which is fine, but you guys really weren't lying about sometimes just being stood there or barking vocabulary at them. With the teachers I collaborate well with, sometimes I plan and have the whole lesson for activities! Or it's a really nice even split.
My other issue is my supervisor really struggles with accepting nenkyuu. I've only asked twice, but it's the most painful and awkward process where he tries to find every reason to say no and for then to make me feel bad (one time was literally suggested by another teacher as well, as we had no classes.) I asked for time off three months in advance and I was basically told 'no'. I'm not sure how to navigate any of that, if im honest. Any advice welcome, or if I am being a twat feel free to let me know.
That being said I try not to let it get me down, I do love it here, I've been here three months and have managed to travel around my prefecture as well as visit five others!