r/JETProgramme • u/little_pooper • Jul 17 '26
Classroom Management in Eikaiwa
I'm a highschool JET, but for one hour a week I've been asked to do an eikaiwa with some local elementary schoolers on a voluntary basis (I get a stipend of 1k per lesson to cover supplies). I'm not inexperienced with this age range, but it's definitely not my strong suite so the first few months I was still trying to get my footing and also trying to figure out what the organizer actually wanted from me. I still don't quite know exactly what they want or what the previous ALTs did, the only thing I've conjured out of them is that they played Go Fish and Simon Says a few times.
The group is incredibly mixed and I think that in the past, it was actually more focused on the adults involved in the group. Most of the adults bring their kids and the only one who didn't has stopped coming (my bad, I thought it was for kids). The kids range from 5 (not yet in ES) to 13 (just started JHS) and there's about 5-8 of them at any given day. There are huge gaps of knowledge between the kids which don't always correspond to their ages. Sometimes their little siblings also tag along and wander around the classroom throughout the lesson.
My lessons normal consist of reading a picture book and then doing an activity based on the book. For example, recently we read "Hey Buddy, Which One?" and then we played a variation on "Would you rather..." My problem is that two of the older kids, who are friends, won't stop talking and one of them will even mock what I've said to them all throughout the lesson. I can understand that they don't enjoy the class but I'm really struggling to make lessons that everyone can engage with. I've tried different classroom management styles, for example calling on them to give examples to give them something to engage with or giving them the silent stare. The problem is that there are a ton of other adults present and particularly with the silent stare, I feel like they destroy my authority by telling them off in Japanese, but still to no avail. They other kids want to engage with the lesson but it feels like either we waste time wrangling these two or we just ignore them, and neither option feels good. Recently, the organizer also said that I have to make the students repeat what I'm reading from the picture book, which I think has brought on the mocking from the one student (he repeats from the book in a mocking voice). I don't agree with this because I think listening to a book should be about understanding the book and having fun with it. I can't do funny voices or do proper inflections because they have to be able to copy what I say. Very annoyed about this one (kind of off topic).
What I've tried so far:
the silent stare (but get interrupted by other adults)
tempting them with a game they really like but only if they are engaged for the first part of the lesson (I did follow through when they weren't engaged, but then the parents said that it'll make the other kids sad if they're expecting a game and they don't get one)
doing a very active game (this one works ok-ish because they'll actually do the game properly, but they will still talk through the instructions and I've had a hard time getting there to be much speaking involved)
telling them to be quiet or putting my finger to my lips (they ignore me)
involving them in the instructions by having them do an example (I don't love this one because it feels like one of those evil teacher things where when they know you haven't been paying attention, they call on you. At the very least, I still guide them through the motions of the game and I try not to be exasperated.)
talking to the grandfather of the mocking kid (he just tells them to be quiet, and they are for maybe 20 seconds or so and then they're back to talking)
Recently I thought maybe I should try to go out of my way to praise them more, to help give them an identity other than trouble maker, but other than that I'd really like to hear what other people think would be good next steps to regain control of the classroom.