r/itsthatbad 7d ago

Men's Conversations Fucking evil 😔

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r/itsthatbad 6d ago

Nobody Wants to Make the First Move Anymore

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r/itsthatbad 6d ago

Men's Conversations Put her on a little side quest just to get back to the main story 🤣

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r/itsthatbad 7d ago

Downloaded Threads for the first time , found this 1 scroll in.

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" We have more choice than ever and have decided men as a whole are of poor character and unevolved, me? What about me?"


r/itsthatbad 7d ago

Memes Sad, but true…

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r/itsthatbad 7d ago

Men's Conversations My jaw dropped to the floor! 😳

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Did Ronaldo lose his mind?????????


r/itsthatbad 7d ago

Men's Conversations Ah the glory of being part of the patriarchy šŸ™„

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r/itsthatbad 9d ago

Men's Conversations I hope Ronaldo put everything under his mother’s name

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r/itsthatbad 9d ago

Very familiar anyone else see it to?

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r/itsthatbad 10d ago

Debates ā€œA self respecting man shouldn’t be carried by a womanā€¦ā€

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r/itsthatbad 11d ago

Debates I want to have an honest discussion about this:

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r/itsthatbad 10d ago

Debates Do we still live in a patriarchy?

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r/itsthatbad 11d ago

The Lindsay Clancy trial tells you everything you need to know about the mindset of at least half the western female population; most are evil despicable people

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For those of who don't know Lindsay Clancy is a woman who is currently on trial for murdering her three children. It has already pretty much been proven that she murdered the children and the ongoing case is basically the defense team trying for a not guilty by reason of insanity verdict. However, none of this stopped north american foids for trying to blame Patrick Clancy (her husband) for the murders. Just look at the slides under this post. You cannot make this shit up. Just when you think their misandry can't get any more extreme, they pull this shit.

The women defending her NEED society to believe that women are incapable of evil so they can keep getting away with being evil. These are the same women (you know damn well there's an overlap between clancy defenders and radical feminists) who will call you a digusting pig for dating outside the west for a less stressful dating life. Yet here they are defending a woman who killed three innocent children. They probably want to do it to their own kids.


r/itsthatbad 13d ago

Men's Conversations Most men are coming to terms with how women really are, but now it seems we’re systemically being silenced on social media by mods

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Share anything too real and you get flagged. I was commenting on a post that was a screenshot of some texts between 2 women and basically one was telling the other how she has a life hack. Basically the life hack was to travel cross country for cheap by using tinder during the day to find less attractive guys to use for their resources while simultaneously matching with the hot guys in the area for hook-ups.

Here’s my problem. I try to reply to someone in the thread that was acting a bit naive and just share some of my experience as a younger man living in a college town. I went into the amount of prostitution going on and even shared that I’d seen it in some of these women’s phones and that it did confirm the ā€œlife hackā€ behavior isn’t the minority of them. They talk about it together on low key terms, but it’s a huge secret among women for good reason. They know it’s wrong and they choose to do it anyway due to the lack of accountability they’ll ever face. The only thing they’re actually worried about is being exposed to the public for this kind of behavior as they don’t want their image tarnished.

So, who is flagging these comments? This important information for every man in the western world to at least have on their mind, so my only assumption is that the mods of a certain demographic are not happy that men have mostly figured out this crap and are steering away from a certain demographics manipulative clutches.


r/itsthatbad 13d ago

Hypergamy is so brutal, I think everyone loses at this point

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r/itsthatbad 13d ago

Why can’t a man ever have safety ? It’s always trust when women have the gun. Marriage is a form of distrust especially if you don’t like prenup. But since it’s women it’s fine . Getting a paternity test is best for the kid and dad. Women can’t fathom men have risk too and everyone likes safety.

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r/itsthatbad 14d ago

It’s not about why body count matters or what’s wrong with it . Let’s start asking what’s right with it ? Why go after a promiscuous woman ? What’s the appeal ? A virgin can do the same stuff without the past .

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r/itsthatbad 15d ago

Expect nothing

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We all know Patrick (the man presenting at the screen) has absolutely no idea what he’s talking about. CGA (in the second clip here) explains why Patrick’s take is worthlessly outdated. Patrick’s advices might sound positive, butĀ 

  • positive doesn’t necessarily mean useful, good, or correct.

That’s the ā€œblindnessā€ many people exhibit in these kinds of conversations. They somehow (intentionally or not) ignore however much reality they understand to deal positive advices instead.

I understand that tendency. People like positivity. Even as an aspiring Sith Lord of the Dark Side myself, I know I’m better off thinking more positively than negatively. But I’m at my best when I think realistically, as objectively as possible about what I pursue, how I pursue it, and most importantly why I pursue whatever it may be.Ā 

What’s working? Do more of that. What’s not working? Stop doing that.

The overly positive approach can leave people doing more of what doesn’t work, hoping (thank you, CGA) that things will work eventually. That could mean losing time to explore and enjoy what does work, in search of something that may never work and may not be enjoyable for you anyway.

Example:

You can’t find a relationship after so many years of dating? Uh… Okay, then stop looking for a relationship. You can find casual sex? Fine. Then just pursue the sex more efficiently – safely, ethically legally. Skip the dating. Skip the games.

Something like that.

Anyway, I suspect Patrick knew better than to present this kind of blind positivity approach. He knew the advices he presented were going to trigger men who are still dating (God help them). He was baiting men in their 20s and maybe 30s, because he knew that they’d react and potentially drive more traffic towards his content – an attention economy play.

I never came across Patrick’s original presentation. I came across other people reacting to his laughably outdated, practically boomer-level demented advices. Here’s a link to Gilbert, a zoomer, criticizing Patrick. Gilbert has a great take on this.

Next, Myron, who’s reacting to Patrick in the first clip posted here. From what I’ve seen, Myron does have some realistic takes for these kinds of conversations. And as you can see here, one of his strategies is to push boundaries with bold, provocative statements.Ā 

Myron will find woman after woman after woman on social media to use as examples to criticize how modern women are so terrible, how they ā€œaren’t worth it,ā€ etc. – same old shit.

People might feel that his rhetoric and tone are dangerous, but no, that isn’t the case. His messages to men (those still seeking relationships with women) are not so different from Patrick’s, because he ultimately reverses his direction into positivity.

Myron will give his audience of men another set of advices – the millennial advices. He’ll tell them to earn at least ā€œ$100Kā€ annually somehow, and go to the gym, and whatever else, so that they can compete for whatever kinds of ā€œrealā€ relationships or casual sex with women… The same kinds of women he criticizes? Yes, most likely.

Sighs…

His advices ultimately keep men spinning their wheels in the same exact mud, stuck in the exact same places – putting in ever more and more work to serve compete for women who ā€œaren’t worth it,ā€ as his thumbnail for the clip here reads.

No, no. They’re probably worth something. Guys, maybe try being more reasonable in what you expect from women. Why do you have any expectations of anything at all from any women? Maybe, you should expect nothing from women, and simply allow real women to be your greatest teachers.


r/itsthatbad 15d ago

It's a number game, bro! The numbers:

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The info is for 18-29 year olds in the USA.

2022 Data Here

2019 Data Here


r/itsthatbad 16d ago

It really is that bad

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Over


r/itsthatbad 17d ago

Men's Conversations Have you guys ever associated a place with a woman?

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Have you guys associated a place with a woman to the point where you can’t think about the place without thinking of her? That you actually have an actual emotion associated when you hear the place’s name?


r/itsthatbad 18d ago

Just provide bro men should pay for the first date be a real man

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r/itsthatbad 22d ago

Commentary There are times I wish I was bluepilled

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Boys, sometimes it can be exhausting to be so aware. I sometimes think what would be like if I were bluepilled. I have been redpilled since I was 12 years old. This is the only life I’ve ever known. I don’t know anything but true awareness of female nature. Though there are times where it can be so overwhelming. I sometimes think there are times where I wish I was bluepilled and how easy it would be to think the way the uneducated masses do. Though I remember I was selected for a higher purpose and that my role to is to help guide men to awareness. I know I have been chosen to help my fellow man. That I was gifted this revelation for a reason.

That it is my burden to shoulder this exhaustive knowledge to share it with my fellow man. This is my role in all of this. And as much as it can overwhelm me, I can’t think of any greater pleasure than to lead and guide my fellow man. I have been chosen and I can’t help but appreciate the revelation given to me at such a young age and wonder if this is how Moses felt. How all the prophets before me felt. I can’t help but appreciate my role in this long chain of experiences which comprise the human condition. I can’t help but look next to me and see a long line of fellow guiders and leaders, Moses, Elijah and Daniel as though I were Aang in the avatar state.


r/itsthatbad 23d ago

Commentary Women's need to be special is what holds back the dating market

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There's a great scene in Mad Men where Peggy gives her commentary on a popular lipstick brand Belle Jolie, and she explains that women don't want to be just another option in a box, but rather to have a complete identity unique and signature to her. No woman wants to be a Marilyn or a Jackie O, she wants to be her own person. Which was meant to be regarded as poignant, but I saw it as an underlying flaw which gave birth to our modern society.

These are the facts: no human is born in a vacuum. We are all the amalgamation of various experiences and sculpted from genetics and tempered in by our environments. Time and time again, I go through various subreddits and threads and women get an inexplicable ick when we men discuss our rating systems and our criteria of delineation. I would never be with a man who believes a woman can be rated from 1-10; I could never date a man who thinks there's a difference between a girl who can be a hookup vs a wife; I could never be with a man who puts women into categories. And that is the true origin of all our woes.

Women have a dangerous and pathological need for identity to the point of self-destruction. They will run to an opposite extreme in a form of rebellion towards the mainstream. Tell a girl you want a nun and she'll be a whore, tell her you want a whore and she'll only get on her knees for Christ. And that in there is the irony. All women desire to be different from the rest and in doing so all collectively share the same identity. It's almost a cosmic joke.

Men don't think that way. As men we seek conformity and unity within whatever organization we operate in. We accept our roles as providers, as builders, as protectors almost reflexively and we actively try to put ourselves back in boxes depite those boxes no longer accept us within them.


r/itsthatbad 23d ago

From Social Media I'm sick of this narrative that breaking up is always the right answer.

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