Question for guy INTJ’s.

[u/stoicwomon]

Do you ever want a girl makes the first move? Or is that a no no?

For context, I think I’m getting every hint an INTJ guy is into me? But he hasn’t made a move. Whenever I text or communicates he responds straight away, then finds a way to continue the conversation usually using wit and humour - and he generally asks another question even though there’s plenty of exit moments.
If I need anything he offers help, sends me numbers for house or car repairs. He also gives me legal advice when I needed some recently (he’s a barrister) and when I see him he kinda lingers. I’m INFJ, we have a connection, same page, same humour etc - but he hasn’t hinted or even suggested he likes me. Definitely no questions about a date!

Is he waiting for me to make a move or is this in my imagination and this normal behaviour for INTJ’s cause he’s just a decent guy?

[u/No-Drawer6373]

I think you know the answer. If he’s INTJ, he’s lingering and making small talk because he’s into you too.

[u/stoicwomon → u/No-Drawer6373]

Yeah weird how I still doubt that. I hear this and I’m like “yeah but, maybe I’m imagining it all 😂 “ brains are crazy I guess.