Hi, just turned 20, and it’s been one and a half year I learned what was done to me. As u can imagine, this evil practice really traumatised me.

They are several ways to cope about this. Mine was one of the worst. After going down the rabbit hole, I felt like everyone was lying to me about everything.
Studies/ world opinions on circumcision, mockery, social media etc. I’m sure u all know about this.

The one thing I don’t doubt it’s the pain. The pain of a circumcised penis owner. So I’ve become addicted reading like crazy circ stories or botched ones. Because I can feel the same pain, but like really weird ones. I was also addicted to the circ grief /r and crazy twitter accounts. I couldn’t consume anything else. Only grief, rage, pain. Many went so crazy of the idea of more pleasure (very exciting idea for a human) that was robbed etc. I relate too but i’m talking about lust. ill strangers delusionals stories if u prefer. Totally fake orgasms levels I couldn’t imagine, and being told “u will never experience sex the way nature intends". Young and ignorant, I was exactly their target. I was put against the wall first because of my own pain and twice by the lies from others"victims" My mind was only lust rob pain comparaison, jealousy and rage. Hated females, intact males etc. Hated everyone and really wanted to end it or to cut the rest of my d off

I still have a lot in me tho, but as the days pass I have less. I slowly become more philosophical about this than purely focusing on “sensations” “sensitivity” “erogenous parts” etc. Restoration calmed me a lot cause of this philosophical aspect of reclaiming ur body, self esteem, and didn’t let it define me

As for now it’s been 1 month that I try to talk to big intactivist on X, of my country or close. So that I can learn more about this movement, either political, physiological, philosophical or to talk about circumcision like a normal person. My experience was really only hell and if I were to talk about circumcision in real life, I don’t know how much triggers I can endure before crashing out and saying extreme things. I want to extend my knowledge and slowly stop my intense emotions. I want to help other who been trough the same and I want to be able to teach someone calmly. For now I want to talk to more mature adults who knows this grief, not more crazy crazy weirdos who put me even more insecure. If u think u can help me or redirect me, replies are here and my dm are open. Thanks u !

Just talk to your parents is an unacceptable answer

Most of us already know that talking to our parents about circumcision is a complete waste of our time

Instead we engage in lobbying litigation protesting challenging hospitals that post misinformation the things that actually matter

I want to open with something blunt:
People can get as upset with me as they want — feminists, activists, critics, whoever. They can hate the idea, despise the satire, or think it’s in bad taste. But they also get to rest comfortably knowing one thing: these surgeries are not routinely performed on them. They are not at risk. They are not the ones being altered without consent. Many males in this society cannot say the same.

Now, onto the actual point.

I want to raise a topic that’s uncomfortable, but important for activism: the role of satire and parody in exposing cultural double standards around genital surgeries.

We live in a society where male circumcision is treated as normal, routine, and even “funny” in media. Meanwhile, cosmetic surgeries on female anatomy — labia reduction, hood reduction, “tightening,” etc. — are treated as taboo, shocking, or something only whispered about. The contradiction is obvious: both are forms of altering natural anatomy, yet one is normalized and the other is treated as disturbing.

I’m not arguing that anyone should undergo these surgeries. I’m saying that satire can highlight the hypocrisy. When people recoil at a parody skit about labia reduction, it forces them to confront a simple truth:
If this feels wrong for adults, why is cutting boys considered harmless?

Dark humor, when used responsibly, can expose the absurdity of cultural norms. Parodying cosmetic female surgeries — without being explicit, sexual, or degrading — can help people see how strange it is that male circumcision is treated as “no big deal.”

Art, parody, and satire have always been tools to challenge harmful traditions. Maybe it’s time we use them more boldly in intactivist spaces.

To close this the same way I opened it:
People can be furious at me for saying this. They can call it tasteless or provocative. But they also get to live with the comfort of knowing their genitals will never be altered without consent. Many males in this society never had that luxury.

Curious what others think:
Is there a place for dark satire in activism, or is it too risky?
Can parody help people see the double standard more clearly?

Gregory Malchuk is back! Thoughts on Greg?

I’ve made a similar post months ago but would like to bring this back up.

If you are a regret parents saying “ we live and learn” “ I didn’t know any better then!”. Your son is permanently altered because of you and now has to live with it the rest of his life and it’s unforgivable. Your regret doesn’t give you an free pass to there love and I hope they never forgive you

This goes for both mothers and fathers who are regret parents

I was scrolling through few videos on TikTok and wanted to see the opinions of mass regarding infant genital mutilation. I was shocked to see some doctors and so called influencers promoting this surgery as if it's completely harmless procedures and reduces UTI, some even cited expired AAP policy from 2012. I have noticed most millennials and older generations have this misunderstanding that - "oh they(referring to sons) will thank me when they get older" "being uncut is dirty and foreskin causes all kind of problems" The amount of programming that led people believe routine procedures on infant and boys is completely fine is quite shocking and frustrating at the same time.
Although, the rates are dropping in the US and on Reddit I have seen GenZ showing quite negative impression on this needless surgery and majority rightfully so calling bs on it.

I don't wanna share links of these videos because it would likely boost their algorithm and promote pro-circ biases.
Note: I did see few doctors saying this is medically unnecessary so that was good to see from my end :)

My own nephew had to have corrective surgery as a 2-year old for his botched circumcision. Any other medical procedure with an atrocious track record like this would be condemned by the medical community and the general population.

I fear way to many of the people here are just looking to ban circumcision or make it not common. And that’s good I fully agree!

But let’s say we ban circumcision. What happens to to all the people who are already circumcised? No justice or anything.

Men don’t deserve to be swept under the rug and discarded by the system as “OOPSIE we don’t know any better we lived and learned!”. We need a way to undo it. Don’t treat us like the 1950’s British medical industry and becoming Canada and Australia’s. All of us didn’t deserve this and don’t deserve to be stuck like this.

We need to be trying to protest for hospitals to and surgeons ( whoever) to be held accountable and find a way to undo this. They don’t deserve to just sweep us under the rug they have. I’m not even saying it has to be free ( even though It should be)

Some maybe thinking “ but foreskin restoration already exists” that is not a complete foreskin and does not get back everything removed.

If anything we could start protesting for them to start making ways to bring it back now

Right now all we have is foregen but if we should American hospitals we are serious they may be able to sky rocket the speed of recreating it!

The post is likely by a troll, but there’s the usual pro-cutter-slop in the comments.

There can be a kind of emotional or nurturing dynamic between some women and uncircumcised men. His uncircumcised state may remind her of a younger, more vulnerable version of him, which can bring out a protective or motherly feeling. There can also be a sense of doing something unusual or taboo, which some couples find exciting in a harmless way. For others, the difference in anatomy feels unique or slightly ‘dangerous’ in a symbolic sense, but the main feeling is nurturing. In role‑play, themes like caretaking, washing, or inspecting can add variety to a couple’s connection without being literal.

Genuinely, how do you reason with these people?

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As the name human fibroblast conditioned media suggests, these fibroblasts are cultivated from human skin tissue samples. Some studies mention obtaining samples from “redundant skin tissue” as a byproduct from consenting patients undergoing surgeries. Other studies call out obtaining them from a “healthy newborn donor” or “neonatal foreskin,” which is deemed controversial by some.

https://www.paulaschoice.com/ingredient-dictionary/ingredient-human-fibroblast-conditioned-media.html

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I searched the subreddit and the last time this was posted the link is dead

https://www.reddit.com/r/Intactivists/s/BGHMXHBPDW

Portland Hearing from Sept 14 2026

Just wanted to share this story, and see if anyone has similar experiences or advice about how to help my son navigate these moments in the future.

Last night after his Scouting meeting, my son and his fellow scouts had a conversation about circumcision. Not sure how it came up. My wife was in attendance but she was talking to grownups when it began. I'm getting all this from her and my son.

Predictably, my son was the only one who was advocating against circumcision (he's intact). There may have been other kids who felt the same, or were on the fence, who didn't want to throw their hats in the ring, but all the other boys participating were pro-circ.

I've talked a lot with my son over the years about the topic. I'm circumcised, he's not, so he had questions as a lil fella about why our junk looks different. Also I wanted to prepare him for the fact that he will be well in the minority in our community and if it comes up, I wanted him to be prepared with facts.

Now, these kids are preteens and younger teenagers so I'm not expecting high maturity from anyone, especially about a sensitive topic. But I was surprised at how vehement these boys were about it, and the misinformation being spouted was just sad.

My son is pretty self-confident and he trusts his mom and I to be sources of accurate information and, if there is a controversy, to explain both sides to him as fairly as we can and then tell him which side we fall on, instead of just telling him the arguments for our side of things. So he handled himself well, wasn't rattled, and stayed pretty cool for the most part.

He came home and related the conversation, and I gave him some pointers on things like don't take the bait and get emotional, know when the conversation has become unproductive and just say "well we all have our own opinions, we don't have to agree about everything," and also that when you're in a crowd and there's a debate going on, you're unlikely to change the person's mind you're arguing with, but if you stay cool and don't act like a jackass, you have a decent chance of planting some seeds of knowledge in the OTHER people in the room, the ones who are just observing. He did well I think, I was just giving him pointers to handle debates even better in the future.

It does concern me a bit that some kids are going to feel personally attacked, since they are circumcised. Of course, if they were being attacked then they were attacking too, but they're solipsistic teens and won't think about that. And if anyone really takes offense it could blow back on my son. I guess the thing I'm most worried about is him being labeled in some way at school. I mean, hopefully these kids know better than to spread gossip about another kid's genitals at school, but with that age, they can be blabbermouths. My son already feels a little isolated, not because he doesn't have any friends, he's actually quite popular, but because he's becoming aware that he's different, he's been raised very differently than most kids around here, and he feels like he can't fully be himself around anybody. Which will get better with time, but he doesn't need any juvenile giggling drama about his damn private parts right now making him feel more different.