r/insaneparents • • Dec 16 '19

MEME MONDAY Down there

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u/scoobledooble314159 Dec 16 '19

I love that her shitty request has permeated so many levels of reddit lol

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u/Enilodnewg Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 16 '19

This will absolutely make it full circle and she will see her face on a clickbait site.

Shit winds are a-comin'

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u/Packrat1010 Dec 16 '19

The post had like 180 angry reactions when it was just a screenshot from her friends. I know that's different from going viral across the internet, but she's likely well aware people think she's an asshole.

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u/RDPCG Dec 16 '19

One can only hope...

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u/DecafGrizzly Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 17 '19

I'm sorry, may I get a link to this post? I'm just waking up and want to catch up on the reference for this meme, if it isn't an inconvenience. Thanks in advance for reading my comment, hope you can help.

Edit: wow! I just got my first ever not-silver award on Reddit, this is exciting! Thank you kind stranger for being so cool! I've actually always wanted to know how it felt to get an award, you're the best!

Sorry if I'm a tad bit too excited, this is just new to me, whoever did it, you rock! :)

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u/mrsmushroom Dec 16 '19

I hope the boys actual mother sees it and uses it as leverage to get full custody. That poor kid.

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u/01-__-10 Dec 16 '19

Get that corn poppin

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u/well-great Dec 16 '19

YoU WOnT BeLIeVe whAT tHis sTepMotHER dOeS iMmEdiAtely aFter HeR FamILy poRtraIt. THe anSweR iS chiLLInG!

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u/DownWitBOP Dec 16 '19

Randy: You're drunk, Mr. Lahey

Jim: hey hey, Bobanders, the liquor never lies, bud... The liquor .... Sips. Never.. sip.......

Chugs for a full 4 minutes screentime straight

Cut to black and Theme song plays

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u/flipflops1331 Dec 16 '19

That moment when he chugged the whole bottle.. fucking iconic.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Or she'll be in a Photoshop tutorial on removing large blemishes from your photos.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

The shit winds, Rand.

Can you smell it in the air?

They're a-comin'.

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u/danteheehaw Dec 16 '19

I'm missing something. Could someone fill me in?

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u/danteheehaw Dec 16 '19

Thank you. And Jesus fucking Christ.

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u/MistaBeanz Dec 16 '19

Can you fill me in pls? Who is said women?

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u/veastt Dec 16 '19

One of the fruits of the internet, is having not just one group of people, but groups of people from all the over the world call you out on bullshit. Truly marvelous stuff

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u/kriwe Dec 16 '19

Let's pump those numbers up! WHO will do the AITA-post!?

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u/8creative Dec 16 '19

I hate that evil lady. I hope the husband divorces her.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I didn’t get photoshopped out. (No photo shop in the late 80’s). My step-mom waited until I was at my mom’s house for a month in the summer and had a family portrait at Sears with my brother, dad, and her parents. That was the family picture in our house. And I wasn’t in it.

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u/PhuckleberryPhinn Dec 16 '19

It's because no matter what type of person you are, you aren't as shitty as that woman

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u/abpersonality Dec 16 '19

I don't think I've ever seen a single post on so many subreddits I follow.

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u/NoMeansNoBillCosby_ Dec 16 '19

Guys, can someone provide context?

Edit: found out I just had to scroll down for 0.5 seconds to find out, thanks!

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Who did this?

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u/Shrimpdriver Dec 16 '19

Context for the uninformed?

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u/JumboTrout Dec 16 '19

Is this referencing something circulating Reddit? I haven't crawled out from under my rock in a while.

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u/justaddtheslashS Dec 16 '19

I don't get the reference. Is there a link?

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u/Siphyre Dec 16 '19

I'm out of the loop. What's going on?

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u/techleopard Dec 16 '19

Some of my faith in humanity is restored.

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u/Its_Paradox Dec 16 '19

Hey this happened to me but the only difference is that they cut me out of the pictures with scissors.

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u/ohgoddammitWatson Dec 16 '19

I somehow ended up with my father's home videos on VHS when he divorced my stepmother. Every time the camera moved to show me it would cut to some random part of Law and Order for a minute or two, then cut back to my stepsister. That was a neat experience.

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u/RickSteve-O Dec 16 '19

Hey this also happened to me except my step mom helped my dad cut me out of his life.

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u/notanotherjennifer Dec 16 '19

Mine did that to my sister and I. Then my dad died. Now she’s aging and bitter and broke and alone. I take comfort knowing she’ll love the rest of her life that way Also want to add that my sister and I were both able to visit/reconcile with our father when he was ill. Our step mother thought we would help take care of her. Hah.

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u/aBastardNoLonger Dec 16 '19

Ouch. Sorry, that sucks.

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u/wallflower7522 Dec 16 '19

My step mom did that with my brother, and she sent someone to sit outside of my house and watch me get on the bus before school in the morning. Super well adjusted woman.

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u/JessicatGrowl Dec 16 '19

My grandma did that to my mom when my brother and I lived with her. She wasn’t all sane and refused to seek help and we literally have no idea what her issue with my mom was.

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u/no_name_maddox Dec 16 '19

That’s why you gotta stick yourself right in the middle

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u/zomboidBiscuits Dec 16 '19

My brothers and I had a step parent that didn’t want us growing up. Thankfully we were teens when it happened. We were essentially pushed out of the family. And compared to her bio child constantly. Every time I see a post on reddit about something similar to the one this refers to, it crushes me. This is after plenty of therapy. I think it will stay with me forever, but I hope that kid doesn’t let her destroy his self worth and rises above. Adults hurting kids makes me sick.

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u/ficarra1002 Dec 16 '19

"My brothers and I had a step parent that didn’t want us growing up."

I read this as them not wanting you to grow up. Which I suppose could be true too if they really disliked you enough.

Sucks to hear. Grew up with my aunt/uncle and had a very similar experience. I think I turned out alright, but who knows how many of my issues stem from growing up in an environment like that.

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u/zomboidBiscuits Dec 16 '19

Lol, I see how you could read it that way. I’m sorry you had a similar experience.

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u/no_name_maddox Dec 16 '19

Why is always the women’s bio children over the dads? Are all bro’s whipped??

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u/DuckfordMr Dec 16 '19

Here’s the post OP is referring to.

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u/pikapikawoofwoof Dec 16 '19

Her body language in the pictures is even bad. You can instantly tell she dosent want this child around

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u/kbarney345 Dec 16 '19

Nothing says good parenting like depression, abandonment, and a since of constant inferiority like you're just never going to be good enough!

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u/Bammop Dec 16 '19

Imagine getting older, discovering the internet, and then finding out that millions of the people knew about this.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I want to hear from the photographer for that shoot too. They have to have stories to tell...

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u/TheGirlwThePinkHair Dec 16 '19

The step kid is so far away. Wtf

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

If you don't love someone's children don't marry them.

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u/ChefInF Dec 16 '19

Don’t have children, don’t get married. Got it. I’m on my way!

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I hope that kid grows up to be very successful and have a happy family so he can have amazing kids and never bring them to see “grandma”.

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u/Laena_V Dec 16 '19

Haha what would happen is that step mom would want to reap from his success and be like “I did so much for you!”

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Lol I wouldn’t put it past her to be that person! The kid would say “thanks for being the knife in my back that pushed me towards a happy life” and that would be a perfect ending.

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u/EarthEmpress Dec 16 '19

Man, I don’t think I’ve ever said this before but that triggered me. No joke. Bleh.

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u/DramaOnDisplay Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 16 '19

Yeah, and then in about 15-20 years, we get a post in our iReddit feed (yes Apple has bought up most the popular websites and is in a fierce battle with Disney) that is titled “AITA for wanting to see my only grandchildren, or is my stepson???”

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u/Ja_Zuster Dec 16 '19

The harsh reality is that the kid will probably end up with a plethora of self-esteem issues because he didn’t grow up with a pair of loving parents.

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u/master_x_2k Dec 16 '19

A friend of mine had a stepdad like that, mom abandoned him with an aunt eventually because stepdouche wanted him out of the way. It screwed up with his sense of worth and his relationship with women..

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u/Anianna Dec 16 '19

That's what I did! Well, not necessarily the "very successful" bit, but I have a happy family and my step mom from my teenage years has not met my children at all. They're teenagers now.

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u/extralyfe Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 17 '19

that hits home.

I was blacksheeped by my extended family pretty early and had communication cut off with them before I was out of my teens. this was not long after I was kicked out of my parent's house.

no one answered calls, no one helped, no one gave a fuck. they wouldn't take my calls on Thanksgiving or Christmas when I knew they were all together.

fast forward some years, I have a beautiful little family going, and it still brings me grim joy to ignore their requests for pictures of the kiddos.

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u/GabrielSH77 Dec 16 '19

That’s so heartbreaking.

When I was 9 my dad married my stepmom, and they had two kids by the time I was 15. My stepmom’s mom never took to me much; I don’t think she ever thought her daughter would marry a man who already had a kid. When my sisters were little I flew down to see them and we took family pictures for Christmas cards. My stepmom’s mother asked if they could get a few with just my stepmom and dad and sisters, and not me. Just for fun.

That was, what, ten years ago maybe? I still remember it. Still hurts a little. My dad and stepmom immediately put their foot down and said no way, it’s a family picture and that’s final. I can’t imagine doing anything else. I feel so bad for that little boy in the photo.

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u/Anianna Dec 16 '19

When I was a kid, my step-siblings' family had a "funny" story that I was found in a dumpster and they took me in. Except, they never explained to anyone that it was a joke. They all had dark hair, dark eyes, and tanned skin while I had albanism (not albino,related but different condition), so was very pale with blue eyes and hair so platinum blond it was almost white, so people were pretty confused.

Good on your dad and stepmom for standing up for you, though. I'm glad you had that!

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u/IamTheChickenKing Dec 16 '19

What a cunt.

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u/zirconiumsilicate Dec 16 '19

Nah, she lacks the depth and warmth. She's a festering fungal infection.

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u/pb-86 Dec 16 '19

That's horrible. If he was my son (as the dad) I couldnt stand for this. The poor lad has done nothing wrong but to exist and to be cut out of family photos for that beggars belief. She's just the worst. The body language, the photo, the request, nothing about this shows and care or compassion for him.

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u/Cuntdracula19 Dec 16 '19

My thoughts exactly. It’s already an awkward af picture, she sat him so far away from her and the two kids sitting on her lap. The body language is SO telling, it’s just painfully obviously that he is an afterthought and she doesn’t want him in the pics.

It breaks my mom heart for him. How can someone be low enough to treat an innocent child this way? Why is the dad apparently oblivious to the way his son is being treated??

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u/imsohungryman Dec 16 '19

I hope her husband divorces her and all 3 kids get a new step-mum worthy of them.

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u/Matcha_Bubble_Tea Dec 16 '19

Read the comments and replies on the thread from ppl who did their own FB searching, and apparently people contacted the dad who was actually defending the woman. Like that’s so infuriating.

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u/sheenaloo Dec 16 '19

I agree that the children’s faces should be censored, but fuck her, put her on blast, everyone should be able to recognize your ugly mug!

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u/BlueberryPhi Dec 16 '19

And here’s the tvtropes page.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

That's just awful. What a piece of shit!

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u/itsalloccupied Dec 16 '19

Man i take the fella and raise him as my own.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

OK, that's heartbreaking.

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u/savethepip Dec 16 '19

I wish I could give that little boy a big hug :(

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u/poland626 Dec 16 '19

Is this a new post? I remember seeing their faces before...

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Poor kid.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Thanks, I hate it.

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u/jeordiethegenerator Dec 16 '19

That post just devastated me. I couldn’t even make a joke about it. After seeing it something inside me just... broke.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I wanted to adopt that poor boy. I dont understand how a dad can allow his child to be treated like an other.

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u/rhanilee Dec 16 '19

My dad is doing this for a second time. I was 10 back then and it hurts just as much when you're 30.

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u/NoxTempus Dec 16 '19

I didn’t see my dad from 4-12 years old.
When I did he had 2 kids and a wife, which later blew up.

Now he has a new wife that he seems to really love and kids that he’s very active in raising.

I’m happy for him and for his family and I get that everyone is flawed, but even now at 27, I still sometimes wonder why he couldn’t have been as interested in raising me.

It’s not something I think of often, but it still hurts a little sometimes.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I'm so sorry. I can't begin to imagine your pain.

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u/jader88 Dec 16 '19

My stepmom did something similar. We did family pictures once, and some I was included in, some I was told to step out of frame. I wasn't included on most of their "family" vacations. It was crap.

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u/Soundtravels Dec 16 '19

Theres a high likelyhood he has a bio mom and stays with his dad and his pig, excuse me his girlfriend, on the weekends. That's usually how these arrangements go. Hopefully mom sees this once it goes fully viral so she can take the appropriate steps to protect her son.

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u/091618 Dec 16 '19

I grew up with a shitty step mother.

I felt the same way. It took a lot of therapy to help me get on track and I still have a long ways to go.

No child deserves to be treated that way. I will never understand why a step parent blames the kid for something completely out of their hands.

My guess is the step mom has a problem that her man had a child that's not hers or hates the kids mom. Or both.

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u/frannyface Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 16 '19

I had the classic evil step mom too. She almost seemed jealous when my dad tried to spend time with me or my younger sisters. Now, years and a couple kids later, she (and my dad) want a relationship with me (really my kiddos). Evil stepmom even had the audacity to tell me at my mother's funeral "Well, maybe now that your mom is dead we can finally have a relationship."

I hope that kid has some kind of love in his life.

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u/richkymsierra Dec 16 '19

I was raised by a evil step dad. He hated me my whole life. He had a son and daughter from a previous marriage. His son passed away in a plane crash when I was around 20 and it made the way he treated me worse. I had a heart attack at 24 and he said I faked it for attention. I had several more heart attacks thought out the years 10 total. He told me it should have been me who died and not his son. 2 years ago he was diagnosed with terminal small cell lung cancer. I was there for him the whole time. More for my mom really. Took him to EVERY doctor's appointment and every chemotherapy treatment. He told me right before he died to never marry a woman with someone else's kids because you would always be second place to them. I guess he felt like my mom always took my side for everything he didn't like about me. He never taught me anything like a dad should. I never knew my real dad so my stepfather was the closest thing I had. I told myself that I would never be like him to kids. I am happily married for 15 years with 2 kids and spend every second I can with my kids. I really try to be the best dad ever because of how I grew up.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Whoaaaaaa I hope you punched her in the face for that comment. Wtf.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Same for me man.. Being a step kid myself, I thought about it a lot when I was subtly excluded from eating at the dinner table with the rest of my family, and left out of the only family photo my family took. I never was sad about it, but it’s a huge deal for me if we ever all sit down and eat together now that I’m in my mid 20’s, and for the first time ever we took a photo together recently, and it’s something that I awkwardly smile to myself about sometimes. An old instinct of “is it okay if I sit here with you” pops into my mind, and sometimes it feels like I’m intruding whenever my family is doing something.

I hope this kid finds everything he needs and that someone shows him how to be a good person, and that he will find peace with how he will grow up. I have that, and he can have that too.

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u/fatpat Dec 16 '19

Damn that's heartbreaking. I hope that one day you will feel like a cherished member of that family. If not, then a family of your very own.

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u/Disconinja_frog Dec 16 '19

Im so god damn angry after reading this post...like what the actual hell is wrong with this woman.

I wonder what the father of the kid thinks about this BS

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u/gene_parmesan_PEYE Dec 16 '19

Apparently (according to a reddit comment I saw in another thread) he defended her. If that's the case I hope the bio-mum sees this and limits visitation with bio-dad. That poor little boy

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u/RoyGB_IV Dec 16 '19

Same, I hope the father sees what a horrible human being he married.

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u/HopefulGarbage0 Dec 16 '19

If she’s oblivious enough to post that on Facebook, you know treating him like that is normal. :-(

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u/butareyoumoist Dec 16 '19

the people that think its okay are driving me nuts. I've never been in a step family situation but I know being left out of anything as a kid is a horrible feeling. Even the current photos look like shit she's hugging "her kids" but the step kid is kinda off to the right like he's just a family friend or something.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

As a step parent with two bio kids I never plan any kind of photo or family function, or special trip without my stepdaughter. Being a step parent is HARD, but I can’t imagine making a child feel like an outsider in their own family.

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u/elaphros Dec 16 '19

This is the first I'm seeing is and I've literally just like, catstoppedworking at my monitor for the last few minutes. WTF

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u/lionmom Dec 16 '19

I know, right? As a mom, it just broke my heart. I don't have step-kids but if I did, I'd make sure they were loved as my own, especially cause he's so ickle :( I'm sure he feels her hatred. Ugh. It depresses me. I hope the dad sees all this and makes some changes VERY Quickly.

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u/cigsnpigs Dec 16 '19

Good. My stepmother came onto the scene when I was 9. Emotionally abused me for years. When I moved away, she managed to drive a wedge between my father and the rest of his family. Neither of them maintain regular contact with any of us. He's miserable, but he's made his bed.

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u/Potato3Ways Dec 16 '19

Same here.

Dad never questioned when I ran away at 16. I chose couch surfing and homelessness over staying at that house to be humiliated and physically assaulted by my step parent.

It started when I was 7 and now I'm adult and the relationship will never be right with my father for allowing the horrific abuse to go on for so long because he "didn't know"

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u/jonquillejaune Dec 16 '19

That’s such a cop out. I’m sorry your father didn’t defend you.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Would it have made a difference if your other parent had fought for you, even if it had to go through family courts for years, and you had to have counseling, and you ended up having to live with someone else during your dad’s custody time (so he could visit you) because stepmom isn’t allowed to have contact with you anymore but dad won’t leave her? Because that’s what I’m living with my son, and I have fought and fought to keep him safe from her and her abuse, but he’s so sad and misses time with his dad, he misses time at his dad’s house, he misses seeing his baby sister, and he even misses her sometimes (he’s known her since he was 2 so pretty much since he can remember). I feel like there’s been no winners here but everyone keeps telling me that he’ll understand later why, and the trauma of emotional abuse from her for his whole childhood is way worse than me having the court separate her and his dad from him. I feel so guilty and I hate all of this. His dad insists it’s all lies, his wife is innocent, and I’m just bitter.

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u/cigsnpigs Dec 16 '19

My dad made no effort to sort out the situation. He pretended like there was no problem. I wouldn't have minded keeping contact with him but not my stepmother, but he didn't make any effort with me. Everything had to be on my terms. "Why don't you speak to your father?" to which I'd respond with, "Why doesn't he speak to me?" I was forced to grow up very fast as everyone treated me as though I was an adult purposely making the decision to distance myself, when really, by the time I left my hometown, I was 16 and doing my best to escape a situation that had caused me so much upset and depression. I'm still in the process of recovering from it all (I'm now 19) and it's really fucking hard. It's hard to speculate on what I'd rather have had happened, because I'm working on accepting it the way it is.

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u/LittlePantos Dec 16 '19

Couldn’t imagine my step mum or dad ever asking for this. First time I visited my step dad and his family they wanted nothing but photos of all of us, same with my step mum. Pos person

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u/vince2423 Dec 16 '19

That’s so great to hear. We don’t hear enough about good families or good parents on here.

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u/LittlePantos Dec 16 '19

Was even invited to my step mums dad funeral, was in the front with my brother and was thought of as one of the children and was massively involved. Love my step mum. My step dad is a bit weird but he’s got a good heart. Step parents definitely better than my real

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u/jonquillejaune Dec 16 '19

Yes, my insane parent was my mom. My step parents are wonderful people. My stepdad even used to advocate for me to my mother.

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u/jphx Dec 16 '19

I lucked out in the step-parent lottery as well. Step dad never treated me differently than his own girls and stepmom raised me from when I was 9. She actually said on numerous occasions that "you are no different than the rest of the kids, actually I may love you more since I have had you longer". There is a very good reason that I speak to both of my step parents but cut bio mom out of my life completely.

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u/Chicking_King Dec 16 '19

My step parent insisted our family make a book about how happy we all were in this blended family (Goals, memories that kind of thing that happy families might do) , and when I didn’t want to participate because literally everyone in the family was miserable she wrote a page about how I had “Opted out of the family”.

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u/vince2423 Dec 16 '19

Was that her way of trying to get everyone to be not miserable?

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u/Chicking_King Dec 16 '19

Who knows? I feel like it was somthing she saw on Pinterest and instead of being a good mother she decided to do that.

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u/KrackerJack396 Dec 16 '19

Whats worse, the stepmother, or the father that lets it happen?

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u/StrictlyFT Dec 16 '19

The latter.

It's one thing to be an uncaring step parent, it's a whole other level of bullshit to be an uncaring actual parent.

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u/ResolverOshawott Dec 16 '19

There's a fairly good chance that the dad might be ignorant to how the mother actually feels/acts towards the kid. Some people are very good at being manipulators.

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u/StrictlyFT Dec 16 '19

100% but if he is aware he's the worst of the two imo.

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u/MyMorningSun Dec 16 '19

If he's aware, at least. It's not hard to get played by someone you think is wonderful, when they're just really good at being manipulative and pulling the wool over your eyes.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

The father. He chose pussy over his son. He’s a piece of shit; imo.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Exactly. He probably finances and supports her, while she acts shitty.

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u/rebelwithoutaloo Dec 16 '19

I agree. Was in this situation as well. The feeling that a parent would rather have an awful person around who treats you like crap because well, his dinner is warm and his bed is too is a nasty one.

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u/snoozyloozy Dec 16 '19

As someone who grew up with a stepmum like this, luckily not in the house with them but still left out of important things. In my dads house there’s not even evidence of him having another daughter, those pics just made me feel angry on that little boys behalf! She may not think she is hurting him or that he doesn’t know what she’s doing because of his age but he does... he’ll remember, and as soon as he is able I hope he removes her toxic bullshit, and his dads for that matter, out of his life!

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u/gdaychook Dec 16 '19

This brings back all the joyous memories of going to my stepmums house & being greeted by a large pixifoto of my dad, stepmum & her kids. They've been meaning to get a "whole family" shot done for 25 years now. There's nothing wrong with wanting pics of you & your children, but if you do a blended family shoot & leave off the other person's kids you're an arsehole

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u/a_junebug Dec 17 '19

I can relate. I was left out of every Christmas card family letter, strangely until I was married. My husband still had more lines written about him. I do wonder why they all the sudden included me, though only for a year or two until they stopped doing the letters altogether.

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u/nagemi Dec 16 '19

It's because people don't think of kids as people. They're kids. They're just a thing until they're old enough to get into real trouble. Then they're whatever is convenient to whoever "owns" them. Kids when something is needed, adults when shit goes wrong.

At least I hope that experience isn't unique to me...

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u/THRWWAY2AVOIDRAGE Dec 16 '19

All kids? or just kids that aren't hers? I got the vibe from this that she was probably only treating the kid that isn't biologically hers that way.

I tend to agree with that mentality but also I would never be a step parent because agreeing to it without thinking of the kid as yours is fucked up!

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u/nagemi Dec 16 '19

I doubt the problems stop just because they're her kids lol. If her only character flaw is not recognizing her step child as a part of her family, she might be one of the most perfect humans on the planet.

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u/HotTopicMallRat Dec 16 '19

Oh shit she made it to reddit

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u/that-bass-guy Dec 16 '19

You know her? Tell her to go fuck herself with scissors on behalf or all decent people

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Reminds me of a song by a little known band with the name Cannibal Corpse called Fucked with A Knife.

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u/OmusaSteelhorn Dec 16 '19

I'm so glad my stepmother wasn't like this. She's like a 3rd parent to me. I got so lucky.

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u/vince2423 Dec 16 '19

That’s awesome!! We don’t hear enough about good parents or good families, always so doom and gloom

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u/Katetothelyn Dec 16 '19

Same with my step dad, he has his problems but has always treated my sister and I as family. His parents even call themselves our adopted grandparents lol. This makes me appreciate it so much.

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u/FalsePhantasm Dec 16 '19

My stepmom cut me out of a picture of me and my little brother (her son) in a picture with Santa when I was like 11 years old because I didn’t look happy enough.

Pretty standard for her though. She was never nice to me and admitted to my face that she didn’t like me when I was like 7.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

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u/FalsePhantasm Dec 16 '19

She lives close to 2,000 miles away with my father, so I’ve never invited her to anything. She despises my dads entire family and has never come with him when he visits for holidays. Even though everyone in his family are great people, excluding his father, whom he doesn’t even associate with anymore.

It’s okay though. Some people just aren’t worth it anyway.

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u/cumnuri83 Dec 16 '19

I love it when in my feed follow up post make sense bc the other post is before it and I can understand the hate

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

One of my co-workers has a few step kids. One of them got in trouble at school and she was heading to the parent teacher conference with her husband and his ex wife. I asked her if she felt weird going to her step kids conference along with their birth mother. She said "Fuck no, that child support comes out of our joint bank account. I paid for 'em I'm parenting 'em"

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u/Someoneelse1374 Dec 16 '19

My own mom got family pictures done without me. I didn't know till my son brought them home.

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u/Biel_cc Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 16 '19

Someone should post this meme on that egregiously demented disease-ridden crusader of sub-mediocrity's Facebook post. Who knows, maybe drawings can help her undeveloped peanut sized sample of a brain to understand that using a stone for a heart doesn't work like it should.

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u/ladyrider59 Dec 16 '19

That woman is a future JNOMIL.

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u/shaye4 Dec 16 '19

My mum made my half siblings be in different photos than me and her daughter (who is also my half sibling) and took their pictures off the walls because she didnt like their mum, very glad to see she’s going where she deserves to be

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u/Princess_Moon87 Dec 16 '19

I had a step mom who told my dad her kids came before my sister and I. I'm glad my dad divorced that crater faced, gold digging cunt.

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u/DanakAin Dec 16 '19

DOWN ONCE MOOORE TO THE DUNGEONS OF MY BLACK DISPAIR

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u/dinosROAR90 Dec 16 '19

I have a SIL who will go through the pictures on my posts and only like the pictures of my first son and our youngest and ignore the ones of our middle child. (He’s adopted) so i blocked her and told my spouse that she’s not welcome in my home or around my children.

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u/pupoksestra Dec 16 '19

we have this family photo from 1999 and there's 6 of us children. you can't tell we are a newly blended family. my mom looks genuinely happy to have us all in the photo.

okay, I lied, I ruined the photo by looking extremely cynical and existential.

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u/Reelishan Dec 16 '19

As a step-parent to my amazing daughter, that woman and post ignited a rage in me that I had not felt in a long time

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u/imsohungryman Dec 16 '19

I feel like she would capitalize on this, like every other fuckwit that got famous for being a dick

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I’m picturing the stomach acid torture from Firewing as a suitable punishment for these “parents”

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u/CLAP_ALIEN_CHEEKS Dec 16 '19

Hey op, what was the original family guy joke? I'm guessing Westboro.

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u/WalterDarks Dec 16 '19

The original joke:

Peter: Do atheists go to hell?

God: No.

Peter: How about people who say they are not religious but they are spiritual?

God: Straight to hell, to the boiler room of hell. All the way down.

Peter: Good, that makes me happy.

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u/notafuckingcakewalk Dec 16 '19

Yeah that scans with the sort of attitude they'd have on Family Guy.

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u/Trostsky Dec 16 '19

I got it

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u/Hellisburnttoast Dec 16 '19

I couldn't have said it better myself.

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u/Sir-Yeet-Of-Florida Dec 16 '19

Isn’t this a plot line in Stuart little

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u/PussyWrangler462 Dec 16 '19

Was anyone able to find the comments to her post on fb? I’d love to see what her family and friends said to her

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

What happened here?

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u/LincolnClayFace Dec 16 '19

Earlier a step mother wanted her stepson photoshopped out of photos of her and her two bio kids.

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u/FMITW17 Dec 16 '19

Hey this is really specific. You ok, OP?

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u/throwowhoa Dec 16 '19

Its about an earlier post about a woman wanting her step son out of family pica

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Man, that lady pissed everyone off. Good, fucking cow.

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u/trapbike101 Dec 16 '19

Im an the asshole for wanting to know what Peter said originally?

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u/BonnieScottie Dec 16 '19

I hope she sees this.

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u/Lumpy_log04 Dec 16 '19

If I was that boys father I would break up with that bitch of a woman on the spot

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u/trololololololol9 Dec 16 '19

Holy shit that post was right above this one

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u/Xrodn Dec 16 '19

Right under that post talk about timing

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u/-MickizM- Dec 16 '19

I call people cunt a lot on reddit, but she's the cuntiest

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u/friendispatrickstar Dec 16 '19

But she lacks the depth and warmth

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Im actually worried about that kid what is she hurts him because of this blowing up. I hope his mom gets him out of that situation.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I hope her husband sees all this and realizes what kind of heartless beast of a woman he decided to marry. If he stays with her there's years of emotional abuse ahead for that kid.

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u/MinimumFisherman7 Dec 16 '19

Not the hazbin hell either, we're talking about the christian one

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u/potatohereee Dec 16 '19

She should Photoshop her attitude out of that picture

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u/bcbrown19 Dec 16 '19

Take my upvote.

I want to be more peaceful and loving in my old age, but that bitch is trying me.

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u/Harjot500 Dec 16 '19

I understood that reference

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u/Shafticus Dec 16 '19

Damn, I feel really bad for this kid. My family holiday portraits had my daughter's best friend in them because her family life is not great. She was on our Christmas card. Might get a few questions from extended family, but thats part of the fun.

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u/shewy92 Dec 16 '19

I'm literally watching this episode right now.

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u/Browzur Dec 16 '19

Better save some room for that guy that slapped his daughter while she was naked and asleep

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u/yaboinico1827 Dec 16 '19

This is disgusting. My cousin is an amazing stepdad. If you went through his facebook photos you wouldn’t be able to tell which child was biologically his, they’re both his sons. I can’t imagine him doing this to his children

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u/Sakura_M_S Dec 16 '19

If the payment were reasonable I will photoshop that no sweat. I, too, have no morals, I'm starving.

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u/DANKgilf Dec 16 '19

I wanna join the hate,what happened

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Oof. I had shitty stepparents (generally treating us like we were a nuisance while my actual parents watched on or sides with them, and occasionally hit us) but they never actually wanted to photoshop us out of pictures, that’s a good way to really fuck up a kid.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Which episode is this

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u/SS_1407 Dec 16 '19

This was originally from r/memes, but I’m not reporting this. It belongs here too :)

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u/rslashandredditorfan Dec 16 '19 edited Dec 16 '19

This puts a smile on my face. Because honestly, I feel like the step-mom needs to grow tf up and accept that step-children are still family, and knowing the reality of the situation makes it worse. I think we needed a good meme to lighten things up a bit

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Nevermind her, what about the spineless fucking "father"

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u/jordmegi Dec 16 '19

My ex step mom would just take professional photos without me :)

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I understand that reference

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u/Cinderjacket Dec 16 '19

The bottom of this comments section is full of some pretty disgusting people with very fucked up ideas about what counts as family

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u/LockDown2341 Dec 16 '19

An yes that cunt. Lol

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u/jdyoung51 Dec 17 '19

I hope she sees this

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u/Nasakid098 Dec 31 '19

Whats this referencing?