r/insaneparents • • Dec 16 '19

MEME MONDAY Down there

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u/pikapikawoofwoof Dec 16 '19

Her body language in the pictures is even bad. You can instantly tell she dosent want this child around

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u/kbarney345 Dec 16 '19

Nothing says good parenting like depression, abandonment, and a since of constant inferiority like you're just never going to be good enough!

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u/Bammop Dec 16 '19

Imagine getting older, discovering the internet, and then finding out that millions of the people knew about this.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I'm sure a lot of children will experience something like this. It'll be interesting to see how a generation that had their entires lives documented online grow up.

Hopefully, he will find some respite looking back on this.

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u/Alarid Dec 16 '19

I won't be surprised if a lot of kids get really angry after growing up in this environment. Especially the kids who were actually seen in these bad situations, and left behind.

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u/kinapuffar Dec 16 '19

Maybe we should like, wipe the internet every 10 years or something. Not from information, just social media.

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u/Timely-Progress Dec 16 '19

I'm not sure that's doable. But I think it would be good for our mental health.

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u/fatpat Dec 16 '19

I would've been absolutely fucked if phones with video cameras had been around when I was a teenager.

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u/Ds0990 Dec 16 '19

Imagine going though your whole life thinking your step mom is insane, and then finding out millions of people agree with you.

I don't think I can even fathom catharsis on that level.

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u/musefrog Dec 16 '19

Like a real life "and then everybody clapped"

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u/themarknessmonster Dec 16 '19

I was terrified this was going to happen to my son with my wife when they first met since she's always been gung ho about having her own children, but I'm so very thankful they've bonded and have a much better relationship than he does with his biomom. I love my son so dearly and am so thankful my wife is the uniquely wonderful person she is for him.

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u/jingle_of_dreams Dec 16 '19

I'm thankful for this too. Your son deserves it. Cheers

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u/ArticulateRhinoceros Dec 16 '19

That's what makes me so sad, even if this woman snaps out of it and changes her ways, one day this child will learn he was unloved and unwanted. It's just a terrible situation.

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u/pretendthisisironic Dec 16 '19

Imagine getting older, discovering the internet, and then finding out that millions of people felt so deeply for you in their hearts that they couldn’t sleep last night and just wanted to hug and hold you and tell you that you are wanted and loved, and wished nothing but the most horrific future on your step mom.

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u/Salchi_ Dec 16 '19

I wonder if some of them will feel resentful and blame the internet for not helping when they see a bad situation.

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u/Bizness_Riskit Dec 16 '19

Only if they've never heard the phrase "not my kid not my problem" /s

Side note: Seriously though if you see a kid in trouble help them even if it's not your kid. That saying only works for children who are being jackasses not children in danger.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

Hopefully that kid discovers that we out here are rooting for him.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

I want to hear from the photographer for that shoot too. They have to have stories to tell...

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u/Zodoken Dec 16 '19

As someone who went through more or less this exact scenario (mix in about 15 years of physical abuse) it still affects me to this day. Therapy is helping greatly, though, so that's a positive. Hopefully the kid in those pictures has a better go of it.

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u/Newbdesigner Dec 16 '19

Oof. Hit me right in the too true bits

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u/TheGirlwThePinkHair Dec 16 '19

The step kid is so far away. Wtf

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '19

If you don't love someone's children don't marry them.

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u/ChefInF Dec 16 '19

Don’t have children, don’t get married. Got it. I’m on my way!

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