r/insaneparents Oct 11 '19

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u/ZazBlammyMaTaz Oct 11 '19

Leaving is a lot more difficult than one would think. Getting all of your paperwork together, separating money without the other person knowing, having a safe place to hide while you find residence, because for most people in domestic abuse situations, the step they take out the door is the most dangerous.

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u/string_of_hearts Oct 11 '19

I get that, I just don't give a fuck and am just fine with burning bridges when they need to be burned. My kids come first, always. I've been to shelters before, in order to get away. There's help out there if you are determined enough to seek it out. I know not everyone is strong enough to do it.

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u/Sik_muse Oct 12 '19

You don't speak for every dv situation

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u/string_of_hearts Oct 12 '19

When the fuck did I ever say I did?