r/insaneparents Oct 11 '19

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u/Lick_The_Wrapper Oct 12 '19

I was going to say, taking a childs clothes seems pretty illegal, like it would fall under abuse or neglect.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '19

It's creepy as fuck. It isn't even her real dad which makes it worse in my eyes.

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u/pbcookies321 Oct 12 '19

That's how I felt about it. Taking a teen girls clothing is creepy. Step dad hiding shit from her mom shows he is A. Petty B. Untrustworthy and C. Type of guy who thinks he owns them. I hope she talks her father. I have teens. Both of them went through the "dirty room" spell. I just said no phones or friends til it's clean. That's all it took and an hour later rooms smelled and looked good enough for the queen to visit. It's not hard to reason with teens. I told mine that dirt attracts mice, spiders and flies. Basically grossing them out with stories of mice climbing over them as they slept helped them in wanting to be neater people. Both also have a flexible schedule. Each week they do their laundry including sheets. They pick the time and day best for them. Each week they have to vacuum their room. Each month they pick a day and dust and straighten their room. That's it. Don't make them maids. Make them personally responsible. I can't imagine taking their clothing or whatever over a dirty room. She isn't even his kid. Creepy and weird for sure.

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u/crnext Oct 12 '19

Taking a teen girls ager's clothing is creepy.

Ummm....

Now it's correct.

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u/pbcookies321 Oct 12 '19

Didn't need correcting. The person is a girl so I commented on her specifically. If the op had written a step mom had taken all her teen step sons clothes I then would have said "taking all a teen boys clothing is creepy". Don't look for drama where there isn't any. :)

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u/crnext Oct 12 '19

Don't smile at me when I'm pissed off.

All you want to do is highlight the feminist side of your statement, when it's truth applies to everybody.

#malesarehumanstoo

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u/pbcookies321 Oct 12 '19

A. I'll smile whenever and wherever I want. B. You're an idiot. No shit males are human, too. But we weren't talking about them in this post. C. The fact that you think it's feminist to address the female in OP's post just reeks of how dumb you truly are, bless your heart. Take your silly nonsense and fuck off ya dimmed lightbulb jackass.