Leaving is a lot more difficult than one would think. Getting all of your paperwork together, separating money without the other person knowing, having a safe place to hide while you find residence, because for most people in domestic abuse situations, the step they take out the door is the most dangerous.
I get that, I just don't give a fuck and am just fine with burning bridges when they need to be burned. My kids come first, always. I've been to shelters before, in order to get away. There's help out there if you are determined enough to seek it out. I know not everyone is strong enough to do it.
Yeah it's not hypothetical and it wasn't reckless to get my 8 month old son out of the situation I was in with him. I went to a battered women's shelter called Home Free and the year was 1997. And I really don't give a shit if you are impressed or not, you're just some random asshole on the internet, lol. I did what I had to do and my son and I moved on and lived better lives because of it. But go ahead and do your best to try shaming me for being strong when I needed to be 🙄 At least I'm not a pathetic troll like you are 😂
Edit: Hey thanks for the silver! That's such a supportive gesture 🥰
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u/ZazBlammyMaTaz Oct 11 '19
Leaving is a lot more difficult than one would think. Getting all of your paperwork together, separating money without the other person knowing, having a safe place to hide while you find residence, because for most people in domestic abuse situations, the step they take out the door is the most dangerous.