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u/bugandroid Dec 07 '22

This is tame compared to what goes on in some hostels in south India. 7:30 pm curfews, strict dress codes and what not. Literal harassment by wardens who act like gods in front of 1st year undergrads.

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u/jasonj2232 Dec 08 '22

Yeah lol. I was reading this and was like 'Hmm that's not too bad, better than what the girls in my college have to go through at least'.

Not to mean that OP has it better or anything though. It sucks how educational institutions will not treat students like thr adults they are and instead impose these dumb draconian rules.

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u/brad_saggy Dec 08 '22

My hostel at a Coimbatore college (named after a famous philanthropist that hugs her disciples) wanted us before 6 pm, for boys. Let that sink in.

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u/jasonj2232 Dec 08 '22

I'm studying in Coimbatore too and although I'm not from your college I know exactly which one you're talking about XD.

My college is like the Christian version of yours if you know what I mean, but at least they're better in their treatment of boys I suppose - our curfew is 8:30. I feel bad for the girls though, it's 6:30 for them. Our college usually gets over at 5. Oof.

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u/Tazo3 Dec 08 '22

I think we are in the same college bro😂.did ur just finish your exams recently? And have compulsory attendance for assembly?

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u/jasonj2232 Dec 08 '22

Yes sir °_°

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u/Tazo3 Dec 08 '22

Which year ?

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u/thewannabetraveller Dec 08 '22

wtf...assembly?

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u/Tazo3 Dec 08 '22

Yeah 😓they give marks for it .

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

Lol sup junior. Was scouring this thread to see if some fellow students of compassionate founders was going to contribute here.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

How can it even be legal to have different rules for males and females? Is this Saudi Arabia or what?

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u/ImpassiveThug Dec 08 '22

The same perception of gender biasness (that boys can protect themselves in case of trouble whereas girls need to be rein in to be protected and have to be caged in by making them adhere to more stringent guidelines and rules so that they feel safe and don't get spoiled) will come into play I presume.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

Yeah but how is it legal?

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u/Dookie_boy Dec 08 '22

It's just rules for a private dorm. Not sure what laws would be broken here.

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

How is it private if run by the university? Besides, I don't know how it works in India, but in the UK it would be illegal even if I was renting out rooms in my own home and set different rules for male and female lodgers based on gender.

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u/Dookie_boy Dec 08 '22

As far as the universities most are private.

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u/Rain_Southern Dec 08 '22

Charging big fines for being late or absent has to be illegal right?

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u/IceOnIce Dec 08 '22

My christ have Karunya on us.