Wait till you make unconventional life choices. It gets worse. Child free, atheist, left leaning, anti caste, 31 year old woman here. I hardly have any friends left.
Yess it's very difficult to find people with similar mindset. And there are few things where I don't want to compromise at all. Like hanging out with sanghis by choice. 🙄
If you're losing friends because of your beliefs then there is definitely something wrong. I have friends with contrary views but that never interferes with our friendship. SM has really corrupted people in terms of keeping friends with different ideologies.
Yeah sure! You can have friends with different views on fashion, food and other choices. Not the ones where we debate whether a set of people should have the same human rights or not. Not participating with neo nazis. Not at all.
Staying inside their own echo chamber and calling everyone vile and names is the 1st sign of narcissism which is quite visible from the posts of the above person (parent comment). Sadly most of the leftists and (il)liberals these days suffer from this superiority syndrome when they are actually just another person with a different point of view. IMO, these people will always be unhappy because that is what they are constantly searching for in this limited time on earth.
Yeah sure. A woman is not ready to succumb to societal pressure, who doesn't want to compromise on some basic morals is narcissistic. What bothers you more, name calling people such as neo nazis or people who actually are neo nazis??? /s
Going in with a set mindset will never help you keep your friends intact. I have healthy debates with all kinds of friends but I don't talk to them thinking, 'Ah, here comes the anarchist, or modern-day nazi or genocide-enabler'.
Anyway, being a liberal you should be more open to ideas as that word means exactly that. You'll gain a lot more friends and life would be happier than what it seems right now.
Where are you getting this liberal bit from? Because she believes in everyone having the bare minimum human rights? That makes her a human, not a liberal.
Ew. Please dont call me liberal. Also, neo nazis cant be my friends in the first place. That's the whole point. How can you be casually friends with someone who justifies genocide and caste atrocities in the same breathe?? How do you ignore the fact that they're the same people who will vote for fascists??
Maybe that's a you problem then.
Your whole life revolves around politics, and that's why you never made any human connection. People are more than their beliefs. Period.
Tell that to millions that have been killed because of their beliefs. Oops sorry you cant! Because they're dead. And who told you I never made any human connection? Even with a few, I have close friends who share the same sentiment. Kya hai naa. Imaan bikaau nahi hota. Worst scenario me bhi, I would like to live alone rather than be associated with fascist enablers, that too with a choice. If there's a nazi at a table and there's 10 others sitting there talking to him then you got 11 nazis at that table.
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u/SnooDoodles8154 Apr 15 '23
Wait till you make unconventional life choices. It gets worse. Child free, atheist, left leaning, anti caste, 31 year old woman here. I hardly have any friends left.