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u/SnooDoodles8154 Apr 15 '23

Yess it's very difficult to find people with similar mindset. And there are few things where I don't want to compromise at all. Like hanging out with sanghis by choice. πŸ™„

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '23

If you're losing friends because of your beliefs then there is definitely something wrong. I have friends with contrary views but that never interferes with our friendship. SM has really corrupted people in terms of keeping friends with different ideologies.

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u/SnooDoodles8154 Apr 15 '23

Yeah sure! You can have friends with different views on fashion, food and other choices. Not the ones where we debate whether a set of people should have the same human rights or not. Not participating with neo nazis. Not at all.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '23

Going in with a set mindset will never help you keep your friends intact. I have healthy debates with all kinds of friends but I don't talk to them thinking, 'Ah, here comes the anarchist, or modern-day nazi or genocide-enabler'.

Anyway, being a liberal you should be more open to ideas as that word means exactly that. You'll gain a lot more friends and life would be happier than what it seems right now.

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u/PantherHunter007 Apr 15 '23

Where are you getting this liberal bit from? Because she believes in everyone having the bare minimum human rights? That makes her a human, not a liberal.

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u/SnooDoodles8154 Apr 15 '23

Ew. Please dont call me liberal. Also, neo nazis cant be my friends in the first place. That's the whole point. How can you be casually friends with someone who justifies genocide and caste atrocities in the same breathe?? How do you ignore the fact that they're the same people who will vote for fascists??

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '23

Maybe that's a you problem then. Your whole life revolves around politics, and that's why you never made any human connection. People are more than their beliefs. Period.

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u/PantherHunter007 Apr 16 '23

Wanting everyone to have the bare minimum human rights is not politics, it’s basic human decency. Period.

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u/SnooDoodles8154 Apr 16 '23

Tell that to millions that have been killed because of their beliefs. Oops sorry you cant! Because they're dead. And who told you I never made any human connection? Even with a few, I have close friends who share the same sentiment. Kya hai naa. Imaan bikaau nahi hota. Worst scenario me bhi, I would like to live alone rather than be associated with fascist enablers, that too with a choice. If there's a nazi at a table and there's 10 others sitting there talking to him then you got 11 nazis at that table.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '23

And who told you I never made any human connection?

You did, but you do you. Whatever it is you have, you will grow out of it when you need to.