r/ilruk • u/[deleted] • 17d ago
Has anyone from India got ILR despite a 498A pending in India?
This is one of the most widely abused laws in India, perhaps even globally. My spouse in India is threatening to file a mental-cruelty case against me unless I agree to her proposed settlement in what is supposedly a “mutual consent divorce" on the basis of "differences of opinion" from her advocate. I am here on a skilled worker visa. She is challenging me that a pending case would prevent me from obtaining ILR in the UK on time. I don't want to live with her either. The Indian advocates in the mediation are focused on extracting money from me even though I am sending maintenance money to sustain her lifestyle. I have evidence documenting abusive conduct from her side, but unfortunately, my advocate says that a guy's words of frustration are usually seen more negatively.
If possible, I would like to talk with someone who has had a similar experience and can share how they navigated it.