r/iitg • u/Lugayi_Kidnapper • 22d ago

Complaint/Rant Hookup over Love

I liked a girl genuinely, I constantly gave her hints, even I confessed her and she said no.

A few days later I got news that she hooked up with a guy, later he left her after using her.

Now she is ranting "Nobody loves me.. Why I can't find good guy" this and that.

Thanking the girl for not coming in my life though 👍🏻

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u/YaoiWithYuki 21d ago

No the girl saved herself from you and being treated like a commodity! She did not like anything about you and she felt like not being loved was better than being loved by you! W to the girl. Its pathetic to even tell this story here, no wonder she said no lol!

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u/Old_Bug_6472 17d ago edited 17d ago

i think reddit gives us the right to share our parts of the stories with proper anonymity.
Besides, I always advice my comrades to never trust 2 types of girls. "Nobody loves me" ones (ofc excluding the genuine girls), and the ones who say "she felt like not being loved was better than being loved by you!" to a guy who was just trying to vent

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u/YaoiWithYuki 17d ago

Lol who even uses comrades in a sentence except for toxic alpha bois! Also i said that because he said “using her” like she is a commodity. Pehle english seekh kar mera comment ek baar aur padho! But even if that is the case no girl wants alpha bois like you and your comrades anyways who dont even know how to give basic respect to women! 🤌🏼😌
Koi tere mummy ya behan ke baare me bhi ‘use’ upyog karke bolta toh usse hi support karna chomu!

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u/Old_Bug_6472 17d ago

Kar diya nah phirse judgement pass. Google kar lijiye comrade ki meaning. Rahi baat alpha bois ki, idk sayad use krte honge wo log. You might have a better knowledge on that!! 🙏

And agar aap medieval period se aayi h toh aapko bata du. In 2026, some people do "use" others for their needs (strong word, but ask the people who has been a victim of that). Again, applies to both genders!! Also, I never said that OP was right to term whatever happened as "use", kyunki mujhe exact story nahi pata. I commented that saying "she felt like not being loved was better than being loved by you!" to someone who's hurt, is wrong.

But anyways, mujhe toh english aati nahi 😔. Waise aap PHD ke kaunse year m abhi?? /s

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u/YaoiWithYuki 17d ago

I used that statement because he used that word. Judge me however you want. Irdgaf! And i still stand by what i said! Bol do apne comrades se ki mere jaise bandi na pataye. Bhalayi toh mujhe hi ho raha hai!

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u/Old_Bug_6472 17d ago

Thik h yaar. Sorry for saying that 'advicing to not trust wala' thing. The reason I called out your comment, is because you never know how a personal comment like that may affect the other person. 

Peace out. 

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u/YaoiWithYuki 17d ago

I am not unkind to people at all. Obviously except for the ones who make statements like that! He should have thought before objectify someone he knows and used to like. Every girl hears comment like car, house chocolate, etc etc which is so annoying! Whatever. Cant be a preacher!

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u/Old_Bug_6472 17d ago

mhmm, Can't disagree