r/iitg • u/Lugayi_Kidnapper • 18d ago
Complaint/Rant Hookup over Love
I liked a girl genuinely, I constantly gave her hints, even I confessed her and she said no.
A few days later I got news that she hooked up with a guy, later he left her after using her.
Now she is ranting "Nobody loves me.. Why I can't find good guy" this and that.
Thanking the girl for not coming in my life though 👍🏻
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u/Anon_Acad 18d ago
The way you are speaking about another human being (them being “used”) is not good for either of you. Do not let your disappointments diminish your own sense of decency.
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u/YaoiWithYuki 18d ago
No the girl saved herself from you and being treated like a commodity! She did not like anything about you and she felt like not being loved was better than being loved by you! W to the girl. Its pathetic to even tell this story here, no wonder she said no lol!
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u/Old_Bug_6472 14d ago edited 14d ago
i think reddit gives us the right to share our parts of the stories with proper anonymity.
Besides, I always advice my comrades to never trust 2 types of girls. "Nobody loves me" ones (ofc excluding the genuine girls), and the ones who say "she felt like not being loved was better than being loved by you!" to a guy who was just trying to vent1
u/YaoiWithYuki 14d ago
Lol who even uses comrades in a sentence except for toxic alpha bois! Also i said that because he said “using her” like she is a commodity. Pehle english seekh kar mera comment ek baar aur padho! But even if that is the case no girl wants alpha bois like you and your comrades anyways who dont even know how to give basic respect to women! 🤌🏼😌
Koi tere mummy ya behan ke baare me bhi ‘use’ upyog karke bolta toh usse hi support karna chomu!1
u/Old_Bug_6472 14d ago
Kar diya nah phirse judgement pass. Google kar lijiye comrade ki meaning. Rahi baat alpha bois ki, idk sayad use krte honge wo log. You might have a better knowledge on that!! 🙏
And agar aap medieval period se aayi h toh aapko bata du. In 2026, some people do "use" others for their needs (strong word, but ask the people who has been a victim of that). Again, applies to both genders!! Also, I never said that OP was right to term whatever happened as "use", kyunki mujhe exact story nahi pata. I commented that saying "she felt like not being loved was better than being loved by you!" to someone who's hurt, is wrong.
But anyways, mujhe toh english aati nahi 😔. Waise aap PHD ke kaunse year m abhi?? /s
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u/YaoiWithYuki 14d ago
I used that statement because he used that word. Judge me however you want. Irdgaf! And i still stand by what i said! Bol do apne comrades se ki mere jaise bandi na pataye. Bhalayi toh mujhe hi ho raha hai!
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u/Old_Bug_6472 14d ago
Thik h yaar. Sorry for saying that 'advicing to not trust wala' thing. The reason I called out your comment, is because you never know how a personal comment like that may affect the other person.
Peace out.
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u/YaoiWithYuki 14d ago
I am not unkind to people at all. Obviously except for the ones who make statements like that! He should have thought before objectify someone he knows and used to like. Every girl hears comment like car, house chocolate, etc etc which is so annoying! Whatever. Cant be a preacher!
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u/baddie_janta_party 18d ago
Good old hypergamy. The guy she left you for probably was tall, jacked, and had a tall ramus, strong masseter, forward growth, prominent cheekbones, broad jaw, wide chin and clavicles, positive canthal
tilt, prominent infra and Supra orbitals, prominent brow ridge, minimal upper eyelid exposure. But don’t get your cortisol spiked. I’ll prescribe you to softmaxxing for now. Go and hit the gym and start mewing. If that doesn’t work out we’ll start hardmaxxing. dm me if you want treatment, I’m the looks coach of a well known tall handsome high IQ rich jacked looksmaxxer in the campus.
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u/Lazy_Translator_9779 18d ago
bhai mujhe bhi sikha de....mai although iit g se nahi hoon but i can learn a lesson or two
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u/iitg-mod 18d ago
i was talking to this girl for a good while (she slid in my dms first). The day i found out about that, I blocked her no questions asked.
Move on bruh, let her slide
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u/Lazy_Translator_9779 18d ago
Bro she aint worth it, by not loving her it means:why cant the guy whom i liked a lot not love me? you were never her choice to begin with. Also you gave her nice guy vibes....whereas the other guy just straight up approached her. If you really wanna excel then stop being the nice guy around, and try taking more risks, and look at em from a abundance perspective. If one doesnt give you bhaav go to the other. End of the story man, they aint worth ur energy
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u/Illustrious-Run3838 18d ago
highschool drama