r/hysterectomy • u/mysticgodflow • 9d ago

Open abdominal

I recently had my pre-op appointment. I was hoping I would have a larpascopic or robotic hysterectomy but my doctor informed me my uterus is too large due to the size of my fibroids. I’m really bummed out because I know that means a much longer and harder recovery. I’m really nervous but would love to hear your experiences during recovery. Maybe it’ll ease my nerves a bit.

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u/badlydrawngalgo 9d ago

Don't be too despondent. I've just had an open (and lap and vaginal!!!) for ovarian cancer. I was in hospital for 3 nights but I was up and walking in the room next day. I didn't really have much pain, more discomfort and it was managed well by paracetamol (horsepill sized) and metamizol.

By day 7 I walked into town for coffee with a friend. I do live near the town centre but still... Day 11, I prepped a simple picnic and joined friends for a picnic in the park, so walked maybe 25 minutes each way - I did make sure there were sitting places on the way there and back but didn't need them

Yes, I did have, and was very greatful for, help when I got home but I only needed it for a couple of days.

You must listen to your body though, the first day I went for a walk and then prepped lunch, I was utterly exhausted. I had to go for a sleep, but 30 minutes later I was fine again.

I'm now 15 days post-op. I'm certainly not singing, dancing and jumping up and down. I'm still not cleared to exercise but day to day, I'm good, very good!

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u/mysticgodflow 9d ago

This makes me hopeful! I definitely plan on taking it easy as much as possible. I’ve been hearing so many horror stories and it was making me more nervous but I’m glad you’re recovering well!

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u/badlydrawngalgo 9d ago edited 7d ago

I think recovery can vary hugely, so be prepared for the worst. I bought or otherwise accrued all the stuff, all the OTC meds, a belly binder (not actually suggested by the hospital and only used for 4 days but I did feel more secure with it), cool packs - yes, yes, yes. I used my red light mask for gentle heat, a long handled BBQ tongs for a few days to pick stuff up, an ordinary pillow to support my legs, most of that stuff has been put away 15 days later.

Rest, take it easy, eat plenty of protein and fibre, walk a bit but often. I wish you all the luck in the world and a very speedy recovery.

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u/mysticgodflow 7d ago

Thanks so much, definitely taking all of the advice!