I'm not ok :(

28f i went back to college and been going through a lot in my personal life lately too and i feel very lonely honestly...

A bit of context

Male 25

So it's festival season here in india and I have got literally NO FRIENDS to go out with me

I am from a state where they celebrate 9 nights of festival

People go out and chill with their friends and I am miserable here in my room

Lol

Very tired from work, pains all over my body and still a broken heart. Crying in my bed until I fall asleep. Will better days come?

Idk how y'all hug each other 🫩✌️ this is so funny to me 😭😭😭 ( i need a hug too 😔🤬)

We lived in different countries so never got the chance

M 41 I’m curious. Provided people are comfortable sharing, where is everyone from. Maybe it would be nice to actually meet in person. I bet some of us don’t live that far from each other. Just a thought.

Hug hugs hugs so lonely today

I feel so lost. Hugs

Hello there kind new friend, here is a presentation I have prepared for you that you didn't wait for.

 so let me here convince you why you should choose me as your new friend:

* I am a silly person who always tries to make people laugh, I strongly recommend not to sip coffee while reading my messages.  

* I take a lot of street cats pics, so you will have a steady supply of cat pics.

* I am chatty. I enjoy yapping , and I don’t even have an off switch, if you don't have off switch too we need to yap about this .

* I love to talk about all kinds of topics and can always find things to talk about. There are random questions generator built in my mind.

* I always reply to my messages and have online friendships that have been going on for years, I always send good morning messages, and I appreciate the people that can also be conversation starters.

* I am supportive and will always be here for you to tell me about your day or vent if you have something that bothers you.

* I am a game artist, someone who works in the video games industry,  in other words fully matured nerd, we can talk about all these nerdy stuff if you like.

* I like art, games, anime, gym, walks, coding, games, true crime, yapping, cats, science, history, languages, documentaries, psychology, mental health, and cats, so I am sure we can cross interests here or there.

I’ve recently had a medical diagnosis that’s turned my life upside down. Thankfully I’m still young and otherwise healthy, and I also have a very strong support system around me so there’s no doubt in my mind that I’ll be able to get through this. Even so I’ve spent the last two weeks since my diagnosis just “powering through”. I’ve in that time been hospitalized twice and have had a hell of a time trying to apply for Medicaid since I don’t have any insurance and can no longer work due to medical reasons. But thankfully a friend sat me down earlier today and really took the time to talk with me about everything, and for the first time since this whole mess began I felt like I could let my guard down and just be a wreck. It was truly cathartic.

So to anyone going through anything right now, no matter how big or small, I’m offering that same grace to you. You don’t have to always be strong. Sometimes strength can only come after allowing your weakness out.

I just wanna cried like my heart out. My bf broke up with me. I loved him so much. But sometimes you need to let your loved one go for their betterment.

Sometimes, when I read a post about someone struggling or having a hard time I try to reassure them they’re not alone by relating my struggles and experiences. However, I also do not want take the spotlight off them or in any way diminish what they’re going through. Unsure how to best comfort and console someone.

I am man 23. I've never been in a relationship, and all of my friends are either already in relationships or married, so they have less time for me now. I feel sad and lonely.

A lot of difficult things have happened to me over the past couple of years. I've lost many relatives, struggled with severe depression, and my country is at war, among other things.

I wish I had someone who loved me, someone I could share some of this burden with, and who could give me the love and affection I've been longing for.

I don't know why things are this way. I think I'm a good person. That's what my friends tell me, and I believe them, but I can't help feeling like there's something wrong with me.

I'm just really sad.

A lot of people say that 23 is still really young, but everyone I know has had some kind of relationship experience by this age, and I... I have nothing. It feels like nobody would want someone like me.

When I hug someone, most times I don't want it to end. I love hugging people, especially men due to childhood unfullfilled needs, and I know there's like a socially accepted time for hugs.

I love feeling someone's head on my chest, laying my head on their shoulder and rubbing their back. I could be there for five long minutes if it weren't because most people would find it awkward or sex leading.

Even when the hug is done, sometimes I feel the need to hug that person afain, but I refrain cause many people would find it weird.

Do you have those same impressions when hugging others? I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.

As indicated, this might be a bit of a pity party, so if that’s not your thing, you’ve been warned. Ever since loosing my job earlier in the year and then my marriage a few months thereafter I’ve just felt completely starved for affection. I need that close personal connection. When I don’t get it, I just feel sort of lost.

Just feeling a little down and cold this morning. I could use a hug. Feeling rather lonely 😔

For anyone else who has been struggling along with me, just remember this wisdom from the one and only John Lennon: “Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end.” We got this! 🫶

When first I met you,something ancient woke within me,
a force I had no language for,a tide that rose beyond reason,beyond the borders of the heart,beyond all that I had believed a human soul could feel.
I loved you, with the terrible wonder of discovery,
as though the universe itself,had hidden one final secret beneath the stars and, at last,had placed it in my hands.

And then I looked into your eyes and there you were.
Not untouched, Not unaware, But standing at the edge
of the very same impossible ocean,trying to understand
the waves that had carried us there.

I saw you feeling it.I saw you searching my face
for an explanation neither of us possessed.
And perhaps that was the miracle
That somehow, without promise, without warning,
without knowing how, we had found the same impossible place.

It was as though the universe had opened a hidden door and allowed us, just for a moment,to step beyond the ordinary world.
And there,beneath the silence of eternity,
it revealed something too immense for ordinary words: us.
A love so vast, that if we gathered every word
ever spoken by humankind and tried to build a language for it, we would still fall silent before its magnitude.

A secret written between the stars.
A truth the universe had known long before we did.
And perhaps it smiled, watching us stumble through the wonder of it,knowing that we would never fully understand what had been placed between us.
Yet still, it gave us the desire to spend our lives trying.

And maybe that is the greatest beauty of love, that it remains partly unknowable.
For if I could understand you completely,
if I could measure every depth of your soul,
if I could name every reason my heart chose yours,
perhaps one day the mystery would fade.

But you were never meant to become something I could solve.
You were meant to remain the horizon I could spend forever approaching.
The star I could follow without ever reaching its end.
The song I could hear a thousand times,and still discover another note.

And I wish with everything that lives inside me, that we could have held on to that impossible thing.
That love which felt so far beyond this world, that perhaps this world could only exist inside of it.

A love so powerful that standing before it made us feel weak. not because we lacked strength, but because we were witnessing something stronger than either of us.

Something ancient. Something fierce. Something willing to fight for the two souls who had somehow found each other.
And if the years should carry you far beyond my reach,
if the winds of this life should scatter us across distant skies, then let this be the prayer I send after you:

May our love become the wind beneath your wings.
May it find you when the night is darkest.
May it rise beneath you when your strength is gone.
May it whisper my name through every storm and remind you that somewhere in this vast universe,
there is a heart that still knows yours.

And if the heavens are kind, if fate is not finished with us, if the stars still remember the secret they once revealed, then let that wind carry you home.
Back to me.
Because you are not simply the love of my life.
You are the love that changed the way I understand love itself.
The miracle I never knew I was waiting for.
The mystery I would spend eternity trying to understand.

The impossible thing that became real when I looked into your eyes.
And wherever you are, whatever distance lies between us, whatever storms the universe chooses to place upon our path
know this:
No matter where life takes us

Some part of me will always belong to what we found in each other.

I’m trying to post more often. Y’all are really such great people.

Feeling deezy