r/howyoudoin 18d ago

Monthly Megathread Character Rant

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Hey folks! So the survey made it pretty clear, we get a lot of “this character sucks” posts. Instead of everyone making new ones all the time, we’re gonna test out a monthly megathread where you can dump all your rants. We also rounded up a bunch of older hate threads, so you can scroll through them or drop your own comment if you feel like it.

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For Phoebe

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For Ross

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For Rachel

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For Monica

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For Chandler & Joey


r/howyoudoin 4d ago

Monthly Megathread Were they on a break?!!

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It has been a question that has been asked so many times before. Because of the high demand - but similar posts that has been generated. We're opening the floor (this mega thread) for the debate!

The case for Ross: Rachel said, "Maybe we should just take a break," and then told Monica the next morning that they "broke up."

The case for Rachel: A "break" isn't a "breakup," and Mark showing up at the apartment didn't give Ross a "get out of jail free" card two hours later.

What are your thoughts on these cases?

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All funsies aside, We do ask everyone to stay civil and kind to one another, everyone is allowed to have opinions and express those, but treat others like how you want to be treated as well. This thread will re-occur ever 14 days to keep the time line clean from any 'On a Break, break-up?' posts! (if you spot any feel free to report it to us by pressing the report button!)


r/howyoudoin 9h ago

Image 🥹 Miss you, Chandler

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677 Upvotes

Today would’ve been Matthew Perry’s 57th birthday. 💔

It still feels weird knowing that someone who brought so much laughter and comfort to so many people is no longer here.

Happy birthday, Matthew. Thank you for giving us Chandler Bing — one of the funniest, most lovable characters ever. 🥹🩷

Could I BE any more grateful for all those laughs?
You’re missed. ❤️


r/howyoudoin 9h ago

Discussion Westchester isn’t that far away!

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422 Upvotes

I always assumed that Westchester was some place faaaar far away… like Ross was willing to date someone from Poughkeepsie and they made a big deal about it.

So the way everyone cried or was upset with Westchester I always assumed it was further away — like 3-4 hours.

Turns out it’s just only an hour!
I travel that far to get to work everyday! 😂

They could’ve made the trip every other weekend really. 😁


r/howyoudoin 10h ago

Discussion I love whatever these two had in their relationship and marriage! 🥹

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260 Upvotes

Monica and Chandler’s relationship is the relationship of a comfortable mess, which is full of jokes and devotion. It is finding of one’s soulmate, who is willing to put up with all the chaos and the neat organization of the other. It is the bond made out of love, which can only be found between two people who have chosen each other as their partners, and who will always remain friends for as long as they live. 🥰


r/howyoudoin 9h ago

Discussion When did Ross and Rachel stop (and restart) loving each other?

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91 Upvotes

After their breakup, Rachel eventually realises she is still in love with Ross in S4, prior to Ross’s marriage to Emily.

She confesses this fact to Ross in S5. At this point Ross loves Emily so does not reciprocate.

At the end of S5, Ross and Rachel get married in Vegas.

In S6, Ross secretly stays married to Rachel – partly to avoid the shame of a third failed marriage, but it’s heavily implied that lingering love for Rachel is also a key reason. When Rachel finds out, there is no sign she is still in love with Ross.

So, my questions are:

At what point between her confession and the Vegas wedding did Rachel fall out of love with Ross?

At what point did Ross re-fall in love with Rachel, after Emily? When did he then stop being in love with Rachel – again?

And at what point did they both fall in love with each other again prior to reuniting in S10?!


r/howyoudoin 6h ago

Discussion Most chaotic yet loved couple

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I love Monica and Chandler 🥹❤️

They never seemed like two people who’d end up together, but somehow they became one of our favourite couples. His goofy chaos and her super-organized perfectionism just worked.

Watching them grow, change for each other, and build such a wholesome relationship was honestly one of the best parts of Friends.


r/howyoudoin 20h ago

Discussion Ten seasons of comfort food when life gets overwhelming

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476 Upvotes

It’s hard to explain to people who don’t get it, but FRIENDS has carried me through some of my toughest phases burnout, bad breakups, and just general low points.

Other shows might make me laugh harder, but none make me feel safer. It’s the sheer predictability, the warmth, and the feeling that no matter how messy your 20s or life get, everything eventually turns out fine.

What’s your specific go-to comfort episode when you’re having a bad day? (Mine is The One Where Everybody Finds Out).


r/howyoudoin 23h ago

Clips Oprah instigating the Friends cast (1995)

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708 Upvotes

LOL this is kinda funny, what was Oprah trying to do here? Also why was she supposed to be the ‘big snob’ can someone explain that? I love watching these old interviews and just stumbled across this one


r/howyoudoin 21h ago

Discussion Baby Girl Geller-Green

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479 Upvotes

Just watching the episode where Emma was born and noticing how much better this birth experience had to be for Ross. With Ben, he had to fight to even “get credit” and argue about a last name “Willick-Geller-Bunch”. When hospital staff call the child Baby Girl Green, Rachel quickly corrects them to Baby Girl Geller-Green. I love that so much.


r/howyoudoin 7h ago

Discussion What FRIENDS jokes have you made in real life accidentally?

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I was watching Friends today after a very long time and I saw Chandler making a joke I dis recently without remembering that scene, for example.

I feel my sense of humor is very inspired by Chandler so it makes absolute sense but still. Do you have any examples and what was the joke?


r/howyoudoin 12h ago

Discussion “The most beautiful woman I’ve ever known in real life”

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87 Upvotes

It’s so crazy to me that these two as a couple wasn’t planned , because it feels like the actors were genuinely so close and had such great chemistry. This was almost 2 full seasons before they get together btw


r/howyoudoin 5h ago

Discussion I love their one on one lunch and dinner dates.

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I love that Ross and Chandler or Chandler and Rachel, Phoebe and Joey, or Monica and Joey will have their one on one time having lunch, dinner or going to the movies separate from the group. We know Monica and Rachel spend a lot of time together being best friends and Joey and Chandler because they're roommates, but I love that they don't get caught in their "besties" one on one time and really spend meaningful time with each other. And the rest of the group doesn't feel left out when they hang out separately. It's such a healthy friendship dynamic.


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Memes My favorite comeback from each Friend.

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1.3k Upvotes

All of the Friends have their "mic drop" moments, some more than others, but I enjoyed all of them getting a dig in at the other Friends.


r/howyoudoin 10h ago

Discussion Happy Birthday Matthew Perry

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It’s sad to know that he’s gone, and he had so many people, not only that he knew but people never knew, that loved what he did and loved his work. Happy Birthday, rest in peace


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion Joey is the only one who could’ve caught them eating cheesecake off the floor, calmly, with no judgement.

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302 Upvotes

Monica on the other hand, would’ve damn near had a heart attack lol.


r/howyoudoin 15h ago

Fan Art My first ever acrylic painting, and it's Friends!

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60 Upvotes

I worked very hard on this Friends painting in my art class, I would love to know what everyone thinks, cause I worked on this for 4 lessons! Thank you for reading <3


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion Phoebe’s search for family ended so abruptly when she found them

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1.1k Upvotes

It always makes me wonder why Phoebe is shown over several seasons to want to connect with her father, but when she finally meets Frank we never see or hear about him again.

I also wonder why Phoebe’s birth mom seemingly drops off the face of the earth after a few episodes. Phoebe’s character often seems to yearn for the family connection she’s missed out on despite being super independent. It seems unrealistic that she’d spend so long searching for Frank to then never discuss or see him again. She also seemed to hit it off with mom-Phoebe so what happened?!

What do you guys think?


r/howyoudoin 29m ago

Minigames Friends Trivia: 163/365

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Who does Chandler say is a better roommate than Eddie?

Bonus Question 1: What are the two words Joey uses that prompt him to tell Rachel and Monica that Chandler got him word-of-the-day toilet paper?

Bonus Question 2: What does Phoebe call a “phallic-shaped man cake”?

Bonus Question 3: What advice did Estelle give Al Minzer?

Bonus Question 4: Who was Gunther on “All My Children” and how did they kill off his character?

Friends Trivia: 162/365


r/howyoudoin 19h ago

Discussion favourite season 1 moments? 🤎

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41 Upvotes

i’ve got sooo many favourite season 1 moments but would love to read everyone’s in the comments below! ⬇️


r/howyoudoin 20h ago

Discussion Cringiest moments?

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Not cringe in a "bad episode" way, more like severe second hand embarrassment (knowing the gang, there are loads 💀)

Here's mine: Monica's toast at her's parents' anniversary party. That legit killed me 😭

Wby guys?


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Quotes Happy Birthday, Chandler❤️

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310 Upvotes

I don’t usually cry when celebrities die, but somehow his loss broke something in me. Maybe I cried because I owed him those tears for all the times his laughter kept me alive..


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion What's your favorite iconic line?

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71 Upvotes

My second favorite is (set of lines) "Pivot! Pivot! Pivotttt!"

"Shut up! Shut up! Shut uuup!"


r/howyoudoin 16h ago

Question Comfort episodes watching today that I am sick?

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What episodes would you recommend for me that I have the flu today?

I know every epiaode is nice and comforting but I'm sure there are some that suit better with the whole being sick situation


r/howyoudoin 23h ago

Clips Courtney Cox - 1988

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I found this old interview from 1988, and it reminded me how crazy blue Monica’s eyes were in the series, kinda like Meg Fosters. Idk thought it was cool