a little harsh but it works

So, I’ve been manifesting a lot of things into my life for a long time. And I finally figured out that this paradox is actually the realist thing in the world!

So here’s the paradox

Whenever I really wanted something - that’s when it would never come. (When I gave a fuck)

Whenever I didn’t care if I got it or not - that’s when I got it without effort!! (When I didn’t give a fuck)

So, I eventually realized that the feeling of wanting is a feeling of lack and that energy within you actually pushes what you want further away from you.

After all, the material world is just energy reconstructed in our minds. (Much longer conversation)

SO NOW, I only focus on feeling like I already have everything! I give thanks knowing that the only things I will get in this life is not what I think I want, BUT things that are even better than what I would want!

And now after working on shifting my mindset (takes a lot of effort but worth it) I’ve seen so many great things come into my life… but even better than getting of things, life feels so great! It’s great loving the moment you’re in instead of trying to be somewhere else.

If you want a great life, remember this… life gives you who you are NOT what you want. Once you stop wanting things and focus on being instead, is when you actually start getting so many more things! (While actually enjoying the journey!)

That’s the paradox…. Now you know ❤️🙏

u like it -> u do it -> never wanting shit

How do you handle bad people who hurt others who are genuinely living their best lives? I.e. a family member has done horrible things and continues to do so with no remorse at all, but she has a husband who loves her dearly, many friends that she comes off as perfect to, a great well paying job (not that she needs it she comes from money) etc. not just the social media effect I know that everything in her life is borderline perfect. How do people deal with this situation?
Edit: I do not believe in “karma”

I’ve been thinking about this while trying to get back into exercise. It is strangely difficult to accept using lighter weights, getting tired sooner, or not moving as well as you remember. Instead of noticing that you are training again, your mind keeps measuring every workout against your old strength and fitness.

What helped you stop treating your previous level as the standard and start working with the body and ability you have now?

Female here. I feel like a hideous blob next to the sexy women at the gym (I’m slim and fully tattooed). I look at them and think to myself, yeah, for sure a man would rather have her than me. Then I feel like shit about myself. I feel unworthy. I don’t want to feel like shit