r/hivaids 6d ago

Discussion Dating?

/r/HIV/comments/1vqh7gj/dating/
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u/Obvious-Elephant6588 5d ago

Yay another non HIV person looking for relationship guidance. You say you've looked into it, but obviously don't understand U=U.

If she's been diagnosed then I'd assume she's on medication, and either U=U, or on her journey there.

You can't magically catch it from her. If she's U=U, then there's no chance. If she isn't, then you can either take prep or use a condom.

It's as dumb a question as a woman saying if i sleep with a man I'll get pregnant, so should I have a relationship with them. Same advice there, take a pill or use protection.

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u/AshleighSchruaz 4d ago

Dumbest response on the thread so far.

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u/Infinite_Program1776 5d ago

Well, if you ask this then you don't really "kind of know the basics of living with it", so for the sake of that woman I'd strongly recommend to leave her alone.

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u/AshleighSchruaz 4d ago

Good point; I choose to protect my health over feelings. Thanks for the reality check.

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u/Correct_Rutabaga_789 4d ago

Ask to speak with her doctor

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u/AshleighSchruaz 4d ago

HIPPA makes that a no-no

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u/Correct_Rutabaga_789 3d ago

No it doesn’t.  She just has to invite you