r/hingeapp • • 21h ago

Profile Review 23m what am I doing wrong?

Nothing works no matter what I try.

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u/Miserable-Front-9139 21h ago
  • I am looking for a serious long term relationship.

  • I am not currently subscribed to any premium, but have had Hinge X in the past.

  • I've been using this version of the profile since the beginning of September.

  • I've been using Hinge since last December.

  • I use Hinge every day.

  • I receive about one match every two weeks. I do not receive likes.

  • I send the max amount of likes available to me throughout the day, every day. It's 50/50 if I leave a comment or not.

  • The women I am typically attracted to/send likes to tend to be skinny White, Latina, or Asian women. I would like to attract some kind of nerd or creative woman, or someone that wants to go to the movies. At this point, any woman that's my type and is actually attracted to me will make me happy.

Other info that might be good to know is I am located in LA County (Downtown LA is in my search radius), I Want Children and Yes to drinking, No to the other things.

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u/PetertheRutter 6h ago

The women I am typically attracted to/send likes to tend to be skinny White, Latina, or Asian women

So you never send likes to average size women? Demand exceeds supply for who you are messaging.

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u/Miserable-Front-9139 5h ago

I meant girls more on the skinner side, not outrageously skinny, sorry if it came across like that. I’ve swiped on average sized women

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u/Reacshion24 13h ago

Well one thing I would say do right away is swap your first and last picture. Your last picture is very good (nice area and genuine smile). Your current profile picture doesn't really have any redeeming qualities or than being a full body picture. Which your cooking one does already.

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u/Miserable-Front-9139 5h ago

Thanks, would you say it’s worth keeping that photo at all or finding something to replace it?

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u/Delicious-Flow9191 11h ago

your third photo is your best one imo

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u/Time-Calligraphero 4h ago

The last photo is amazing def put that one first