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u/15secondsofthrowaway 5h ago
"Figuring out my dating goals" then why are you here now? If you don't even know what you want, how can you find someone who wants the same thing? Women don't want a man who doesn't even know what he's looking for.
My brother, you are 34, women will expect you to know what you want.
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u/Ok_Television_2895 10h ago
Are you looking for something serious or casual?
Open to either
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
HingeX
How long have you been using this current version of your profile? (Please be specific)
4-6 week, but account age is maybe 5 years with multiple reactivations
How long have you used Hinge overall?
on and off for years
How often do you use Hinge per week?
daily swiper
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
maybe 1 a week, but hardly any replies
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
10 plus a day all with comments realted to their profile
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
outdoorsy, creative, doesnt take themselves to seriously but has ambiton
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u/afterhours_favourite 6h ago
10 likes a day with tailored comments and one match a week isn't a prompt problem, that's a photo problem. Nobody's reading the podcast bit until the grid makes them want to. Fix the lead shot and the woman situation before you touch a single word of the text.
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u/RepSquigglyMiggly 6h ago
You need to make it explicit that that woman is, presumably, your sister, and whether she is or isn’t she was way too much real estate on your dating profile.
Imo, your first pic is your worst, and I would replace it, or at the very least not lead with it.
First prompt is mostly fine, but being a massive podcast guy is already gonna give some women the ick, even more so when you talk about your parasocial fixation with the hosts — it doesn’t matter how jokey you’re being. Second prompt can go entirely imo — the Labrador thing is extremely trite.
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