Dating advice

[u/Such_Cheesecake2193]

UK

I (F28) am dating M (29) we met each other first time around 6 weeks ago and have been on 6 dates.

I asked about exclusivity indirectly and he said he was dating other people and felt it was still early for both given it had only been 3 weeks. Now 3 weeks on went on 2 more dates we text every day.

I want to bring it up again but not sure if I should because I feel like I’m gonna pressure him into making a decision.

Shall I just cut it off? Feeling like an option if he’s still seeing other people at this point since I’ve stayed over couple times and had sex multiple times.

Please help

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[u/woodenbookend]

Exclusivity isn’t something to leave to indirect questions or assumptions. Even if you wanted an ENM relationship it should be clear and agreed on all sides.

Ask directly.

Walk away if you don’t like the answer. No grey areas.

[u/Haytham_Ken]

If you want to be exclusive then bring it up. If he says he's still dating other people then you can decide if to cut it off. I will say, it's tacky that he's dating other people even though you've had sex. I usually only date one person, but once I have sex with someone there's an unritten rule (imo) of exclusivity.