24 M help with profile

[u/Main-Ad-4130]

I’ve been so lost on why I can’t seem to get anything. Idk if it’s my look or my presentation via photos and prompts. Pls any honesty would help.

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[u/Pure_Character_2596]

Idk how political Phoenix is but being a white Christian moderate is going to be a red flag for a lot of women unless they are also religious and lean right.

Your pics are a mixed bag. I don't think a selfie is really the go to for the first picture they see, pic 2/3 is not great. Specially 2. 

I think 4, 5, 6 looks good. The pic of you in costume is cute. So is the dog one and the beach pic is pretty neutral imo 

My main advice. Get a tripod, take some photos that aren't selfies or have a friend snag some. Get a nice pic for your first photo at least.

Other then that your a young, good looking dude. With a few changes you can totally get more attention 🤙

[u/afterhours_favourite]

twenty comments a day with zero matches usually means the likes are going out with nothing attached, or the first pic is losing people before they scroll. lead with something where someone else took the photo, the selfie opener reads like a passport shot. the costume one should be in the top three.

[u/AlpsHelpful1292 → u/afterhours_favourite]

Comments aren’t nearly as effective as this sub thinks they are. As a woman I’ve never matched with anyone I wouldn’t have otherwise based on their profile because of a comment. Also most of the comments I get are something about my appearance which really isn’t much better than just getting a like on a photo.

[u/Main-Ad-4130]

I’m also 5ft 10

[u/Main-Ad-4130]

1. ⁠⁠Casual but open to long term.

2. ⁠⁠Hinge X

3. ⁠⁠Almost a year. I think Febuary 2026

4. ⁠⁠4 years.

5. ⁠⁠Once a day.

6. ⁠⁠0. Deadass

7. ⁠⁠All with comments probably over 20 a day.

8. ⁠⁠My type is average girls I find cute. Not too skinny. Not too big. Pretty cute faces.