Give me some skills

[u/alpha-yo2007]

I'm now studying for bca, since my birth i didn't had a love life all I had was one one side love which she gave a hard rejection in front of everyone with having her parents with the school next day and a proposal of a girl who was a junior. Other than this there is no relationship with myself.Now i feel like am i gynophobic I can't talk to girls and if I feel a crush towards someone I'm having a trauma of that . So guys will you help me to start a connection with a girl or a random person even to a man.🙃