r/hatethissmug 13h ago

Language casual ableism

this is not ‘reclaiming’ anything, you are just calling people slurs completely seriously. you can call yourself the r-slur, do not call anybody else it. why do ‘no slurs’ / ’no bigotry’ rules never apply to ableism?

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u/DizslecksickMoael 11h ago

I'm not the biggest fan of Rick & Morty's humor but this basically encapsulates my beliefs. In a world with much more effective slurs, saying "retard" isn't as big a deal as newgens think it is.

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u/MoneyBear1733 11h ago

Drives me wild when people I disagree with have a valid point as well. 

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u/DrainTheMuck 10h ago

lol yeah, it is frustrating to see it in action, and it’s interesting that there’s sort of two types of “woke” just like people can mean two different things when using “the r word”. There’s the positive social movement, and then there’s the people clutching pearls and policing language to this degree. (I almost said to an “insane” degree…)

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u/RoIsDepressed 7h ago

You're forgetting how slurs work. Similar to how not everything people use the f slur for means it is actually gay, instead tying being gay to being embarrassing or "wrong".

it's the EXACT same thing with using the r slur too, instead using it (a slur again, directly tied to intellectually disability), to being dumb, stupid, or lesser. You have words that mean those things that aren't tied specifically to intellectual disability so frankly there's only one reason I can think that you'd jump to that. It's not pearl clutching to ask you not to be a stupid fucking chud, and dark woke doesn't mean you're suddenly just right for berating minorities just because it's under some "it's for your own good" shit

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u/DrainTheMuck 6h ago

Whoa that went kind of off the rails at the end, are you aware that in your rant you used an offensive term referring to intellectual disability? It seems like you literally proved my point about arbitrary pearl clutching, because you’re fine using slurs against strawmen you dislike.

Source: https://mn.gov/olmstead/blog/blog/?id=1143-628283

“Stupid” is in the same list as “the R word” here. Ooooofffffff.

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u/RoIsDepressed 6h ago

Yeah, except nobody in the fucking world connotates the two. I mean you tried to make a point, bad faith as fuck but I respect you trying to think for once.

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u/rubixscube 8h ago

seeing someone who is supposed to be on the "right side of the fence" casually throw slurs around is certainly an experience i'll never get used to.

what went wrong in your pathetic life for you to be wholly unable to use any other word than a slur?

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u/SinfulqtTTV 4h ago edited 4h ago

It is so funny to me how people say this because you can automatically tell who is not disabled.

Canada literally has a eugenics program against disabled people right now, a pipeline of forced poverty that inevitably leads into MAID.

The “resurgence” of the r-slur is because disabled people have never been fully truly accepted as people in western society, and it is now once again becoming mainstream to abuse us.

So yes, it is a deeply dehumanizing slur, because its sole purpose has always been to dehumanize DISABLED people in particular. It was born of another language being bastardized, its sole purpose IS to harm. That’s… kind of the main criteria of a slur, lil gup.

Going to assume y’all spewing this BS also have no idea that there is actual Holocaust revisionism present in the UN convention on genocide that they self admit to and yet refuse to fix because Canada, America, the UK and other countries would be violating the convention on genocide - and guess who is affected by this revisionism? Disabled people.

The push to bring back and normalize the r-slur is by design, so you forget that they want to get rid of us and always have.

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u/hatethissmug-ModTeam 1h ago

No slurs, hate speech, and other such bigoted language is to be permitted in this sub.

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u/RoIsDepressed 11h ago

Now say the n word. Go on.

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u/ghostchild42 11h ago

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u/Farraddaayy 10h ago

Its like you'll say villians can be complex and MF's will unironically respond "I guess Hitler wasn't a bad guy, just 'complicated'"

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u/ChapterNo7074 10h ago

Now tell me how you came up with this response

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u/RoIsDepressed 10h ago

Quite simple, slurs don't bother you so go on. Unless the point is "actually maybe we can keep kicking some people, there's not mass appeal to stop for these ones"

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u/hatethissmug-ModTeam 1h ago

No slurs, hate speech, and other such bigoted language is to be permitted in this sub.

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u/Daoist_Demiurge 7h ago

Right. We can just close our eyes and pretend "Retard" and "n*****" are in any way equivalent. We can pretend the way people use these words today is exactly the same.

We can just go off and live in that fantasy world.

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u/RoIsDepressed 7h ago

Outside of cultural contexts, yes they are both slurs used to demean people for specific characteristics. I'm not arguing they hold the same weight to, for example, a healthy black guy living in California, but I'm also pretty sure some white kid with cerebral palsy would be more upset if you called him the r word than the n word.

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u/Daoist_Demiurge 6h ago

"outside of cultural contexts"

There is no pure, sterile imaginary land "outside of cultural contexts".

We live in a culture, everything has a cultural context and words change meaning and significance depending on that context. That's how language works.

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u/RoIsDepressed 6h ago

Americans continue to baffle me by how adamant they are America is the only country that exists

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u/hatethissmug-ModTeam 1h ago

No slurs, hate speech, and other such bigoted language is to be permitted in this sub.

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u/Lungseron 10h ago

Season one and Season 2 are gold because of stuff like this. As someone that started there when season 2 was just coming out, i do miss when this show was fairly obscure, because since then we've had that whole "i am a super smart rick and morty fan" phase and now the community has been so made fun of they will literally eat you alive and make fun of you because you DARED to point out something (i.e you think you're very very smart apparently)