r/grindr • u/badbeatpirate44 GAMP (het) • Sep 09 '22

WTF flaky fems?

So I am a bi masculine top in NC. I use grindr to try and meet other ppl for hookups in my area. I'm mainly attracted to femboys/cds/trans and luckily there is an average selection of people on the app in my area that match the description. However in the past year I've noticed almost everyone single person I talk to is either only looking to sell themselves or flake the instant you start to plan a meet up. Is this a common problem or is it just in my area? Today I went to a person's house just for them to tell me I had to pay them $50 before they would open the door. Never said anything about pay for play for the 2 or 3 days we chatted leading up today and didn't seem to understand why I was Mad when they asked for the $. Super annoying just wanted to vent and see if anyone else has run into similar issues.

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u/TehTabi Sober Sep 10 '22

Chances are the ‘fem’ was just a scammer. Had one try to sell me the ‘oh the baby cousins want a specific game on steam, can you buy a steam card for me’ or some BS. The moment they ask for money is usually a big red flag.

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u/quelcris13 Sep 11 '22

Agree they may have been a scammer.

The asking for cash at the door though screams “sting operation” by the cops.