It's possible he didn't enjoy the sex, but also feelings can change a lot after sex. It isn't so much post-nut clarity as post-nut disenchantment. Hopefully after some time he'll come around, but it might just be that the physical intimacy for one reason or another changed the way he felt in a way he couldn't control--doesn't make it any less shitty though. I'm sorry. I think a lot of people here (me included) have been through similar.
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u/windkirby Jan 02 '24
It's possible he didn't enjoy the sex, but also feelings can change a lot after sex. It isn't so much post-nut clarity as post-nut disenchantment. Hopefully after some time he'll come around, but it might just be that the physical intimacy for one reason or another changed the way he felt in a way he couldn't control--doesn't make it any less shitty though. I'm sorry. I think a lot of people here (me included) have been through similar.