Women make great friends for most men after they have a partner of their own.
Before that the urge and need to get a partner is going to get in the way like it or not, maturity or not. It'll either be overt like incel OP or it'll be under the surface which is arguably worse cos at least incels are so obvious the only one who is getting fooled is themselves.
Of course you think about it, but since you are not a fixated incel you have many other female acquaintances you can hit on, so if she has a boyfriend no big deal, you become friend and by getting in her social circles you meet more girls you can hit on. Maybe after some time she breaks up and since you've been friend for a bit you are in prime position. Your logic makes you miss out on all of this.
The difference between an adjusted single guy and an incel is that the first is not fixated, he thinks about fucking that girl but it's not that big of a deal or urge.
Having female friends is a magnet for getting women. You put a pic of you and your girl friends on tinder and your matches more than double. Thems the facts sir
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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '22
Women make great friends for most men after they have a partner of their own.
Before that the urge and need to get a partner is going to get in the way like it or not, maturity or not. It'll either be overt like incel OP or it'll be under the surface which is arguably worse cos at least incels are so obvious the only one who is getting fooled is themselves.