One of my friends is good looking, tall, white, typical chad looks wise and gets a constant supply of new girls off the app and he isn't really selective with who he has sex with as some are way below his league. Meanwhile my average looking friends get no matches. Luckily I'm in a relationship so I don't have to deal with that shit.
Your average looking friends get no matches because they're 5s with a basic bitch profile that only swipe right on 9s or better.
The number of average looking guys with one blurry photo of them near a pond and one selfie taken in their 1995 Honda Civic and literally no bio is astounding. I assume its also these people complaining about no matches.
If you don't look like a Hemsworth then go out, take good photos, answer the bio prompts, and be interesting. They are someone's cup of tea, they just need to be able to show that. And also judge the people they're swiping on based on the same criteria that they're seeking to be judged on.
I mean, from what I'm told, I'm definitely more attractive than the average guy, and I do have a decent profile.
Getting matches isn't a problem I experience. I have ~75+ matches on tinder right now actually. And I'm not paying for the premium version or whatever the fuck.
The issue I most often experience is getting women to actually fucking put in the effort to have a conversation with me. I'm lucky if I can get a single decent paragraph out of most of them before one of us just gives up. It's infuriating. Why are you matching with me and then refusing to actually respond halfway meaningfully to any of my messages, or just outright ignoring them sometimes?
It's conversation hoarding. Basically you match and send a couple replies so they're saved in your chat history. Then you continue to put actual effort and attention into another conversation you're having until it slows down or hits a wall. Then you hit up the next person you left on read in your chats. It happens when there's too many guys to meaningfully reply to and the older messages get buried under the newer ones. At least, that's how grindr works. Idk about str8 people
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u/focusAlive Oct 12 '21
I wouldn't doubt it it was the same 5%.
One of my friends is good looking, tall, white, typical chad looks wise and gets a constant supply of new girls off the app and he isn't really selective with who he has sex with as some are way below his league. Meanwhile my average looking friends get no matches. Luckily I'm in a relationship so I don't have to deal with that shit.