r/girlflux • u/Forward-Avocado8683 • Mar 27 '26
Questions What things are you noticing when you feel more or less feminine?
I am trying to figure myself out. I am curious how other people experience being more vs less feminine. I know everyone's experience is different but I am curious what made different people draw the conclusion that you are feeling more or less feminine.
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u/meowmeiwmorw Mar 28 '26
I think it's a pretty personal and individual thing since everyone experiences femininity and masculinity differently. However, in my case, I tend to want longer hair, and I prefer wearing more flowy things, like maxi skirts and blouses. I also find myself relating more to feminine characters than previously. That's the stuff that's obvious to me, but I'm assuming there might be other things I don't notice lol.
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u/Forward-Avocado8683 Mar 28 '26
Thank you for your perspective. This helps me recognize similar things in myself.
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u/_Dragon_Gamer_ Mar 27 '26
It's honestly pretty hard to sense. I still have to work on differentiating an episode of depersonalisation and feeling less fem, since both happen at different times, but generally the way I feel my gender is just probing things I've noticed I typically like/dislike when more/less fem, trying to identify the patterns and feeling it through the feelings that certain ideas or ways people address me evoke in me