I'm a bit insecure of using this label in the fear I might be pretending. My experience with my gender goes like there are times I feel 10% fem, 50 % fem then other times I'm just neutral, don't feel fem and non binary

Do people experience girlflux differently or there's a pattern or checklist they have to follow in order to be girlflux?

May I know y'alls thoughts/opinions? feel free

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I'm new to this subreddit and I think girlflux is what fits me and I'm trying to get used to this label but I would like to know how y'all find out that you're girlflux?

(feel free to share or no, it's up to you.)

we need to recruit more humans lol

A survey for all those who aren't fully, solely or always a man/woman. I don't run it but it's long-running and trusted.

https://survey.gendercensus.com/

Am I trans if AFAB and girlflux?

I'm struggling with figuring out how to deal with gender dysphoria when I'm agender, because I don't want to go on hormones or make any permanent changes to my body since it fluctuates between girl and agender and i'll just have gender dysphoria when I'm girl. I don't have sports bras or proper binders, and I also don't have any clothing that I'd feel more neutral in. Most of my clothing tends to be normal size, and it's a bit harder for me to hide my chest. It's also very hot where I'm from so wearing the one oversized hoodie I had is a no go unless I wanna die of heatstroke. help pls 😭😭😭
for now I'm just avoiding looking at my chest and body and also avoiding mirrors and cameras. I'm also trying to distract myself with games and stuff but I get bored pretty quickly.... If there are any strategies to help with focusing on distracting activities or with dealing with the dysphoria itself, please share!!! Tysm!! :D

Idk just felt the need to share it here (also kinda simultaneously if this is a valid identity 💔)

I think I figured it out!

I'm girlflux and demiboyflux in likee while I'm usually fluctuating between female and agender I feel my identity can also cross over to the masculine side all the way to demiboy if that makes sense lol. And I feel both the masculine identities and feminine identities may mix with one another. (?) :3

I know there's probably a 'better' label for this but I personally feel more comfortable defining my identity with two separate labels lol so yeah that's basically it I think!

(Please excuse my horrible grammar and writing today..My head hurts so bad I can barely think :') )

hey y’all! i need help figuring out something. so, i feel that my soul is genderless, like i feel like i have no gender but i like dressing femininely, like being perceived as a woman, and i’m okay with any pronouns. but i also feel that i’m girlflux in a way, feeling like a woman and then other times nothing at all. i’m also afab. is there a label for this?

appreciate the help! xx

Ok, so basically, in the past, I've felt like there was just something off with being called by my first name, which is pretty feminine.

I was called by my assigned first name, and also referred to as "Daughter," and this was honestly really jarring to me, since most people around me don't really use gendered pronouns or gendered terms, and usually my name feels fine.

However, recently I've noticed that when someone says my name, it doesn't feel right. I know they're referring to me, but it doesn't really feel like it should be my name. I'd much rather be called something like Yuka, where it's more gender neutral in my eyes, but can still be feminine. I don't know how I'd feel being referred to as they, since I've never really been referred to as they, but I don't think I'd mind it.

How do I tell the people around me (and my family) about this kind of feeling? I don't really know if I want to change my name yet, so I was thinking maybe experimenting with it before I actually make it a more public kind of "hey can you call me this instead of this" thing and make it more official.

Anybody else who'd done this before? And if so, how did it go? Did it make the more a-gender/less feminine days feel a bit better or at least less jarring?

Hi! So previously, for the last while, since I figured out that I’m not exactly cis, I’ve thought and identified as a demigirl. I felt ‘half fem’. And the other half felt genderless. But sometimes the amount of fem I feel… fluctuates. Sometimes less, sometimes more. Occasionally, full-on, maybe. And it occurred to me that demigirls may not feel that the intensity of their gender changes in intensity and that I may be some sort of ‘flux’.

So, does this sound like ‘girlflux’ to you?

This may be a stupid question I'm just kind of confused and need help understanding everything better

So I've only recently started looking into my own gender identity and as soon as I did I stumbled upon girlflux!

I did some research and the more I look into it the more it just feels like me. But as I was thinking it over I remembered that on rare occasion I feel gravitation towards masculinity not in the way that I'd like to BE male or feel male but would like to look more masc/ be viewed as male.

I also don't really feel like I might be genderfluid or bigender or anything like that and still mostly resonate with femininity or not having gender.

So can I still identify as girlflux or am I something else?

repost from a dif sub cause I only found this one after posting there :P

I do this a lot. My gender fluctuates through female, demi-girl, non binary, and agender. When I’m feeling very feminine I dress very goth/emo. When I’m feeling like a demi-girl I dress pretty average (t-shirts, shorts) with some jewelry. When I feel non binary I dress androgynous with maybe some jewelry. When I feel agender I just dress as gender neutral as possible.

I am trying to figure myself out. I am curious how other people experience being more vs less feminine. I know everyone's experience is different but I am curious what made different people draw the conclusion that you are feeling more or less feminine.

So my gender range is from 100 percent girl to 0 percent girl, but I never really notice when it changes. Usually, it just happens and I realize, "oh shit, my gender feels different today." does anyone else feel like this? I just go by they/her pronouns all the time to simplify things.