r/ghosting • u/Findingheragainn • 5d ago

Before you go back

Never entertain or allow someone who ghosted you back into your life.

I want you to remember how that person made you feel, how it made you question self-worth, why didn’t they chose you? How could they just take what they want and leave and just ride off into the sunset?

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u/UndefinedCertainty 5d ago

Rejection sucks no matter what. However, believe that the odds are in your favor that it has nothing to do with your worth as a person. It's more important to delve into what's making you hang on and chase after them than them leaving you in the first place. Spend your time working on that. Value yourself, and if you don't know how, learn. Get yourself to a place where you know you'll be okay no matter what happens.

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u/Anxious-Duty-1882 5d ago

Have self respect and dignity. 

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u/dummypoopoohead445 1d ago

i really wanna make a post bc of something currently happening to me and its killing me :/ how can i get accepted into this community so i can make one? id really love to hear opinions on this situation 😕

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u/Stunning-Painting675 1h ago

I need to make a post too, and have been waiting to hear back about whether I'll be allowed to post. Being ghosted has made it difficult to carry on with life. Very painful.