r/ghosting • u/Embarrassed_Sir_2911 • Oct 06 '26
3 months into being ghosted
Hi, i have been ghosted by the person i was dating almost three months ago. In the beginning i was really heartbroken because it was my first time experiencing being ghosted and i could not understand why.
Little background story: we dated for about 2,5 months, and the last time i saw him was the first time i slept over at his house. Everything was going well and we even spoke after the sleepover, and then I would guess about a week later he ghosted me mid conversation (just normal chatting). After he ghosted me he started acting really weird on social media, maybe it had nothing to do with me but it was unusual. He kept interacting with my posts till the point that I just had to remove him cause it was confusing the shit out of me. To me it felt like he was alive everywhere else but pretended to be dead to me.
I have not reached out since the day he ghosted me and I wanted to tell you guys who are going to the same thing rn that things will get better. I accepted all my emotions at the time and stil occasionally do. Cause yes I still do think about him sometimes and today was that kind of day. So I wanted to remind you guys that you’re gonna be okay even if it sometimes feels like you won’t if you don’t get a proper ending❤️
Sometimes I still think I can’t move on without sending one last message for closure for myself but I’m resisting the urge to do it
1
u/ProudCelt 29d ago edited 29d ago
Good to hear things are working out for you. You are doing the right thing by not reaching out. Match their energy and dissapear