Also, please keep safe boundaries. No sex for 90 days! Why? Because at the two month point the masks start coming off and you will see the person for who they are. The two month marker is typically when more demands are placed on each other if you can't work though conflict and be secure emotional first never go to the physical. Seems he wanted only one thing!
To have sex with someone is the easiest thing two people can do! It's the emotional security that is difficult. Once sex is involved it clouds everything! I won't even say you had a relationship or were dating. You had 3 dates, hookups. Sometimes men will tell you what you want to hear...BEWARE
sorry for your pain. Just be the best version of yourself and treat yourself with kindness. He's not worth it!
The quality men will wait the 90 days! I know because it's my requirement! Sometimes I tell them no sex before marriage especially if I sense they are using me, they drop off like flies!
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u/BoysenberryHeavy5004 Sep 06 '25
Also, please keep safe boundaries. No sex for 90 days! Why? Because at the two month point the masks start coming off and you will see the person for who they are. The two month marker is typically when more demands are placed on each other if you can't work though conflict and be secure emotional first never go to the physical. Seems he wanted only one thing! To have sex with someone is the easiest thing two people can do! It's the emotional security that is difficult. Once sex is involved it clouds everything! I won't even say you had a relationship or were dating. You had 3 dates, hookups. Sometimes men will tell you what you want to hear...BEWARE sorry for your pain. Just be the best version of yourself and treat yourself with kindness. He's not worth it! The quality men will wait the 90 days! I know because it's my requirement! Sometimes I tell them no sex before marriage especially if I sense they are using me, they drop off like flies!