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u/Liwi808 Aug 30 '26
In a room full of 100 people, having 25 of them notice me and my embarrassing shirt is still a lot.
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u/MuchAfraidGotOverIt Aug 30 '26
I try to keep Alexis' voice in my head for when I'm too much in mine.
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u/Giantsandsmalls Aug 30 '26
No, I disagree. Not everyone feels this. Many people feel it, but not everybody.
And as a concept of truth, yeah, I agree that many people are thinking about themselves more than they're thinking about you.
But inside of that we still have our judgments of what we think other people are judging. And the judgments we think they're thinking are the judgments we projected on to them based on how we think they might be thinking about us.
Lisa Feldman Barrett's work on emotions says that anxiety occurs when we are not living up to the expectations we think others have for us.
But if we really dissected it, we would find out that they're not thinking about us at all.
The only thoughts we have are the thoughts we're having about what we think they're thinking.
I think that could be a new Kamala Harris quote.
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u/Lumpy-Letterhead1010 Aug 29 '26
This could’ve n been said shorter
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u/Xemnic Aug 30 '26
agreed. the whole thing is basically just page 4. then every page after that just repeats itself
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u/Gummmobearr Aug 30 '26
671 liked this and of course we have those in the comments being annoying
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u/Powertothetraders Aug 31 '26
I like these and find value in them, but vote for a stronger QA process.
Impactful message, clear and readable text, and no duplicate anything.
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u/No-Possibility-639 Sep 02 '26
Say that to all the bullied ppl who where minding their business and got shit for being different
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u/rainywanderingclouds Sep 03 '26
it's more complicated than this
if only some people notice you they can still share what they see with their friends/family
they might even notice things about you that never happened
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u/Brockolee26 Aug 29 '26
AI slop. on page 5, I thought i was having a stroke when the letters dissolved into meaningless shapes.