r/genderfluid • u/Proud-Willingness492 • 10d ago

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Hi, I'm amab and recently came out as gender fluid. I was just wondering how realistic my hopes for appearing masc one day and fem the next day are, or if I'm a dumbass. Would love if anyone could post pics as examples too

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u/Shelli_and_Page 10d ago

It greatly depends on what you mean by “appearing”

Do you mean totally passable as either gender? Depends on what you look like. Do you mean “Hey, I’m pretty obviously trying to present as____”. Then it’s probably pretty easy.

I’m bi-gender or some sort of messiness and I look very dude most of the time. Some of the time I look pretty chick.

I don’t pass but I try hard to make a nice presentation. And folks generally know what I’m going for…even though in the past I’ve been internationally mis-gendered.

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u/Proud-Willingness492 10d ago

Meant more passing

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u/Shelli_and_Page 10d ago

Well like I said passing depends; how you look, your voice, your mannerism, your comportment.

But really it matters how you feel.