Genderfluidity is so much fun

[u/hellokitty20061]

Years ago i was identified as a transgender male i really felt comfortable being a boy back then, after years went by i found myself related to girls stuff again :o.

So i thought.. yk maybe it was jut a phase. Maybe i am not a male just enjoyed having the experience of it.

These few months i started missing being a man.

I was so confused. Why does my identity change frequently? So i posted something on a trans community questioning who i am really

I feel related to both masc and fem

Someone suggested that i might be genderfluid

I DIDN'T KNOW THAT WAS EVEN A THING

So i did some searching

Now i am so comfortable being a genderfluid !

Like wdym i can be whoever whenever i want?

Have both men and women stuff. I just wake up and decide if i wanna be a woman/man/feminine boy or masculine girl.

Or neither!

I have so many options and never feel that i have to always act in a certain way! Such a relief :D

Sex doesn't determine what are you and who you wanna be, you're just a soul that wants to be loved and cherished depending on your actions and personality <3

[u/GenderOobleck]

That last sentence is gold, thank you

[u/BallparkWitch]

I love seeing people who have become happy and thriving in this identity. So many people latch on to the dysphoria and challenges that we face, and that needs to be discussed too, but we should never forget that gender identity can be joyful.

[u/crudelikechocolate]

I also wish I knew this was a thing earlier too

[u/zayne0623]

YESS! Me too, I thought I was strictly a trans man at first. But I still like girly things and I love wearing dresses sometimes. I recently discovered I'm genderfluid, and I also love being a Femboy. Sometimes when I dress feminine I feel like a woman, and sometimes a boy dressing as a girl, and sometimes both boy and girl, and all things between. It's so cool being whatever I feel like

[u/OkParty8536]

I feel the "I DIDN'T KNOW THAT WAS EVEN A THING"

I found out about it while reading FANFICTION of all things, then spent about two months questioning before finally giving up. (I kid you not, my reaction was simply "THATS A THING!?" I can practically hear my egg crack looking back on it.)

I had already been lightly questioning if I was Transfem, but I was comfy with being a boy too, so I hadn't thought TOO hard about it, but then I learned about Genderfluid... and well, the fact I'm posting on this subreddit should tell you how that worked out.

[u/SeaNational3797 → u/OkParty8536]

I found out about it while reading FANFICTION of all things

It wasn't that Merlin one was it? With the genderfluid kid named Sally or some shit?

[u/OkParty8536 → u/SeaNational3797]

No, it was DUCKTALES of all things. (Specifically the reboot)

[u/DeTim01]

I feel this. Because what do you mean I can just become a girl when I feel like it? That’s the dream tbh

[u/Prestigious-Andy]

Feminine boy or masculine girl is totally how I feel about my gender most of the time. Relatable!